Liz Burbo

10/17/2005 | Vіdvіduvachiv: 223116

We wonder in the dictionaries what the words “thrown up”, “thrown up” mean. Dictionaries give a number of synonymous terms: відстовхнів; put your head down, get excited; do not tolerate; not allow; Vistaviti.

Often people forcefully grasp the difference between two concepts - “thrown out” and “abandoned”. To deprive someone means to leave someone for the sake of someone or something else. To quit means to quit, to not want to get things in order with oneself and one’s life. The one who throws it out says: “I don’t want”, and the one who refuses says: “I can’t.”

Buti znekhtuvanim – the trauma is very deep; znaechtuvaniya considers it as a matter of its very essence, as a reservation of one’s right to life. Of all five injuries, the thrown one appears first, which means that the cause of such trauma in the life of the individual is blamed first for others. The soul that has turned to Earth as a way of celebrating this trauma appears to have been mastered from the very moment of birth, and in many cases - even earlier.

The additional butt is an unbadged child, who was born into the world in a fitful way." If the soul of whose uneasiness did not run into the experiences of the master, so that it did not dare to lose itself and endure in kindness, regardless of hostility, then it will inevitably experience the camp in thrown away. A brutal attack - There are no other reasons for which a father abandons his child, but it is important for us to understand that only those souls who must endure the reality of being abandoned turn out to be of the same type: This father will inevitably throw away his child.

It often happens that the father has no intention of abandoning the child, but the child feels that he is armed with a skin, or even a frictional drive - after a form of respect, and if one of the fathers experiences anger, is impatient It’s too bad. If the wound is not healed, it is very easy to irritate. The people, who seem to be familiar, are not objective. He interprets all ideas through the filters of his trauma, and senses what is thrown out, or becomes inflamed, if possible, and demonstrates effectiveness.

From that very day, when the unloved thought was thrown into itself, the mask begins to vibrate Vtikacha. More than once I have had the opportunity to guard against and avoid regressions into the embryonic stage, and I have realized that a person with the trauma of being thrown in the womb feels even small, tempting to take the smallest place there, and also There is a constant feeling of darkness and darkness in it. This confirmed my guess that the influx mask can begin to be molded even before the market.

I ask you to note that from now until the end of the book I will use the term “influx” to designate the peculiarity that suffers from the thrown-out complex. The influx mask is another, new feature, a character that develops as a result of the suffering of the ejected.

This mask manifests itself physically in the form of licking structures, like the body (or parts of the body) that you want to appear. Vuzke, stislo, nibi are specially designed so that they are easier to lick, take up less space, and are not visible among others. The whole body does not want to take up a lot of space, it takes on the image of a leak that is licking and all its life cannot take up the least amount of space. If you are a human being, I look like a disembodied primara - “skin and brushes” - you can, with a high level of sensitivity, notice that she is suffering from deep trauma of the thrown up essence.

Vtikach - this is the specialness that doubts one’s right to sleep; It would seem that it was not completely infused. That’s why her body copes with the feeling of the unfinished, the incomplete, which is formed from the worst possible fragments. The left side of an individual, for example, can be clearly visible from the right side, and it is not visible to the naked eye and there is no need to check it with an additional ruler. Guess, before speaking, why are you rich in people with ideally symmetrical sides of the body?

If I’m talking about an “understaffed” body, then I pay attention to those parts of the body, so as not to lose all the pieces (buttocks, breasts, chin, tusks much smaller than breasts, depressions in the back, chest, stomach a etc. ).

Having noticed how such a person shakes (shoulders slumped forward, arms pressed tightly to the body), we say that his body is twisted. An enemy develops that blocks the growth of the body and its parts; or sometimes some parts of the body are cut apart from others; and these people began to look like they were grown up in a child’s body.

A deformed body that screams out pity, it’s red to talk about those that people carry with them the trauma of being thrown out. First of all, the soul itself has taken on this whole body in order to put itself in a situation where we can accept this trauma.

A characteristic feature of the influx is its small appearance and eyes. The eyes appear empty or empty, because a person with such an injury is unable to go to her world or “to go to the Month” (to the astral plane). Often your eyes are filled with fear. By being careful about the appearance of the infiltrator, you can literally see the mask, especially on your eyes. You yourself often see, never wonder at the world behind the mask. Some people know that the masks on their faces sometimes last the whole day, and at other times they wear a lot of sweat. It’s not as important as it’s disturbing; It is important that this method is not for the one who is going to be around.

Do not be present so as not to suffer.

The presence of all the above-mentioned signs indicates that the trauma of the thrown is very deep, which means that the person has one sign - for example, only from the eye of the injector. Since the body is powerful, let’s say, half the sign of the flow, we can assume that a person wears a mask not for the whole hour, but for about half. This can be done, for example, by people with a great body, or small faces and small eyes, or by people with a great body and even short tassels. If you are constantly on the lookout for signs of being thrown out, then the injury is less profound.

Wear a mask – don’t be yourself. Even in childhood, we develop our own manner of behavior, hoping that it will steal us. The first reaction of human essence, as it has acquired itself, is to flow in, to lick, to disappear. The child, who feels thrown up and creates an influx mask, is alive in a clear light. For these reasons, he is most often reasonable, reasonable, quiet and does not cause problems.

Finally, relax in your obvious light and the castles will be restored. It is important to remember that his fathers are not helping, that the stench has confused the newborns at the doctor’s office. Such children have no way of getting home; One of them is to walk to school more often. However, having arrived before school and realizing that they had acquired it there (or giving it to themselves), the stench wreaks away from the powerful world, “on the Month.” One woman divorced me and felt like a “tourist” at school.

On the other hand, a child of this type wants to be marked, but does not want to be assured of her right to birth. I will remember one girl who grabbed the groom at that moment when her fathers were greeting the guests at the door of the booth. When they noticed that there was no baby, everyone rushed to joke. She didn’t leave her closet, although she thought well, as the anxiety of grown-ups grows. Vona said to herself: “I want them to know me. I want them to realize that I am.” This girl was not so sure of her right to sleep, which was in control of the situation, so that her right could be confirmed.

The body size of such a child is smaller than average and she often guesses the doll because it is tendentious and dry, then the mother will take care of it; and the wine rings to the point that everyone constantly seems: the wine is too small for this, the wine is too weak for that, etc. The child begins to believe that her body is effectively becoming small. For these reasons, “buti kohanim” for someone means more suffocating. Then, if someone dies, his first sponkants will be thrown out or flowed in, so that the fear of suffocation still nests in him. The child, who is overly protected, feels thrown, feels that she is not accepted for who she is. Trying to take care of his baby and his cries, loved ones try to do all the work and think for him; And then, instead of feeling like khanim, the child feels thrown out of her possessions.

It is your will not to get attached to material speeches, because the stench can overwhelm you if and where you get enticed. It seems that there is no way to truly marvel at all the material beasts from the bottom up. He asks himself why he should work on this planet; It’s really important for me to believe that you can be happy here. He particularly appreciates all those connected with the spirit, as well as the intellectual light. He rarely makes use of material speeches of satisfaction, but he is always satisfied with the superficial. One young woman told me that she doesn’t like buying clothes in stores. It’s better to work in order to catch yourself alive. Now he knows that pennies are necessary, otherwise the stench will not bring you joy.

The suppressed flow of material speech becomes the cause of difficulties in your sexual life. He is ready to believe that sexuality is more than spirituality. A lot of incoming wives told me that they regard sex as a soulless phenomenon, especially after they became mothers. The dek was supposed to set the person’s mood in such a way that he did not care about physical intimacy with them in the same way as the term vagrancy.

It is very important for women to realize that they can and have the right to have the same sexual needs as a normal person. The stench is heavy in situations that appear to be raised in the sexual plane - which themselves indicate in sexual life.

The trauma of famine is experienced by his father.

As you recognize in the description of people who feel like they have mastered themselves, this means that you have experienced the same thing, almost exactly the same as the father of one of yours. This father himself is the first to open this deep wound. And yet, hostility and dislike to the point of hatred become completely normal and human.

The role of the father of one of us is to teach us to love - to love ourselves and give food. My father, who is suffering from ill health, is to blame for learning to allow himself to be loved and to take care of himself.

Not accepting dad, we naturally believe that we should not pretend to be a model. If you know that this is your trauma, then know that your difficulties are explained to the very enemies: being on the same page as your unloved father, you cannot accept and love yourself.

Instead of not believing in your own value, you should not place any value on yourself. And for these reasons, we vikoryst all the features in order to thoroughly understand and gain value both in the eyes of power and in the eyes of the absent. The word “NOBODY” is a favorite word in his dictionary, and with continued success, he insists on it both to himself and to others:

• “My boss said that I was nobody, and I had to sing.”
• “At the ruler’s meals, my mother is nobody.”
• “My dad is just someone in the same relationship with my mom. My boyfriend appeared the same way; I don’t judge him for those who are bad for me.”

Quebec gives preference to the word "POOR":

• “I know that I am nothing, others are following me.”
• “Even if I didn’t hesitate, it wouldn’t give me anything, I’ll just have to start right away.”
• “I’m nothing, nothing... do it the way you want.”

One person-influx admitted at the seminar that he felt worthless and intimidated in front of his father. “If you talk to me, I’m crushed. Whatever I can think about, it’s only about those who seem to lick away from someone else; where do all my arguments and self-control go. Just his presence oppresses me.” The little woman told me that she thought to a sixteen-digit woman that now there was no mother for her after her mother said that she would rather not have such a daughter, if only she would have she died. Due to her unique suffering, the daughter completely moved away from her mother.

This means that when a child feels abandoned, she will want to have one of the same articles with her. Most often in stories about leaving children out of the house, I almost hear the old man’s phrase: “Are you coming? The child, of course, is even more aware of her frailty and is even more angry with her father. This kind of situation can easily be blamed on my father, who himself suffers from the same injury. I would like to take a closer look, because I know everyone well, but I don’t know anyone.

A notable place in the vtikach dictionary is also occupied by the words “not esnuє”, “not іsnuє”. For example, when asked: “How are you having sex” or “How are you getting along with such a person?” He says: “They don’t dream,” so most people simply testify that it’s not important to walk or that the cards don’t add up.

To love is also the word to know, to disappear. You can say: “My father treats my mother like I know... I wish I could disappear” or “I wish my father disappeared!”

There is a feeling of self-importance, self-confidence, because he is afraid of the respect of others - he doesn’t know how to deal with anyone, it seems to him that he needs more attention. And in the family, and in any group of people, he hangs out. It is important that you are obliged to endure this unpleasant situation until the end, but you do not have the right to date; Please note that there are no options for this procedure. Axle butt: the girl asks her mother for help with her homework and she hears from the witness: “Go to the meeting. Don’t you know that I’m busy, and you have nothing to do?” The first reaction of the thrown child will be the thought: “Well, I know I was not good enough, and that’s why my mother decided to help me,” and then the girl will hide in a quiet corner, where she can huddle in sight.

You have very few friends at school, and now at work. You are respected and given peace of mind. The more you isolate yourself, the more you appear invisible. Vyn spends his life in wickedness: realizing that he has mastered himself, he puts on the mask of the influx, so as not to suffer; on the table it fades so that others stop marking him; He becomes more and more self-sufficient, which gives him even more opportunities to feel thrown out.

And now I will describe to you a situation that has been repeated many times during my seminars, whenever the skin recognizes what my seminar has taught me. It is with great astonishment that I discover the presence of an individual whom I did not notice during the second seminar! I ask myself: “Did you spend the entire hour?” Then I see that the body was flowing into her, that she was managing in such a way that she didn’t talk and didn’t question the entire seminar, and that she sat for the whole hour behind others, trying not to be respected. If I tell such participants that the stench is extremely toxic, they will invariably testify that they have nothing to say, they didn’t say anything.

To be honest, it seems like it’s not enough. Sometimes you can talk, and talk a lot - you try to assert your importance; Whose appearance is desperately filled with pride.

The influx often develops a PROBLEM OF THE SKIRI - so don’t push it too far. The skin is a contact organ, its appearance can be obtained and distinguished from another person. Sickness of the skin is not a good way to ensure your health, especially in those places that are associated with the problem. More than once I heard from people in the room: “If they stick up to me, I have the same hostility as they pull me out of my cocoon.” The wound of the one who was thrown out makes it difficult to believe that if you are in your world, then you will suffer no more, as long as you will not be able to give up to yourself, and others will not be able to throw you away. That’s why he often gets tired of being part of a group of robots and gets put out. You enjoy your cocoon.

Therefore, the flow easily and willingly flies into the astral path: it’s a pity that these paths often appear unknown. You might think that this is an emergency and that others are there as often as Vin. Thoughts and ideas constantly flow into disarray; Sometimes you can almost say: “You need to pick up less for yourself” - it seems that the wine is made up of several items. This is especially true for those whose body is based on the design of separate parts. More than once I felt in the air: “I feel like this, there’s nothing wrong with other people. There’s no place for me here.” Dekhto told me that sometimes he clearly senses how his body is splitting apart - an invisible thread is cutting him at the waist. In one of my friends, this thread separated her body along the lines of her breasts. As a result of the stagnation of the technique of speech, as I present in one of my seminars, I noticed that the upper and lower parts of her body were united, and were already enriched with new features. This helped her realize that she had not really been in her body since childhood. Vaughn didn’t even know what it meant to be tied to the ground.

At seminars, I notice women, especially women, who like to sit on a table with their legs crossed under them; It seems that it would be easier for him to sit on the ground. Ale, the fragments of the stench don’t stick to the ground, it doesn’t matter for them to flow in. They don’t have to pay a pittance to be present at our activities, and this fact confirms their intention - and the most important part of them - be here if you want to concentrate, “choose for yourself,” it’s very important to them. That’s why I tell them that they can choose to fly into the astral plane and miss those that are happening here, otherwise they will lose their connection to their place and be present at the present.

As I have already said before, I still don’t feel any acceptance or kindness on the side of one of his ranks. This does not necessarily mean that Dad is throwing him away. Tse yogo, vtikacha, especially pochuttya. This very soul could come to Earth in order to survive the trauma of humiliation, and live with the same fathers with the same setup until its child. On the other hand, it is clear that it is difficult to experience the reality of what has been thrown more than once, even though there is another characteristic - let's say, brother and sister - in which there is no trauma.

A person who is experiencing the suffering of someone who has been thrown away is constantly searching for the love of the father of one of her ranks; You can also transfer your search to other people in this article. If you respect yourself with your imperfect self, you won’t win your father’s love. He is already sensitive to the respect of his father and is always ready to see what throws him out. His behavior gradually develops bitterness and embitterment, which often turns into hatred - such is his great suffering. Don’t forget that hatred requires a lot of money. Hatred is not stronger, but it is not the same thing. The wound of the one who was thrown is so deep that from all five characters the strongest one comes in to hatred. It is easy to bypass the stage of great hatred in order to succumb to great hatred. This is a sign of the strongest internal suffering.

Because my father is suffering from chronic illness, he himself is afraid of throwing it away and always strives for something good in his actions. Through your trauma, you cannot be yourself. He goes to great lengths to be extra cunning and careful so as not to throw someone away - he doesn’t want anyone to be blamed for having kicked someone himself. On the other hand, he wants his father to be the same as him, standing in front of him - which allows him not to perceive his frailty so keenly. You can’t imagine that his suffering has been thrown away by internal, invisible trauma, but daddy doesn’t care. As soon as he experiences the reality of his father’s (someone else’s) sickness, he calls it to himself and throws it at himself.

If you have the trauma of someone who has been thrown away, then for you, as your father effectively tells you, it is important to understand and accept this thought: “the very fact that your trauma is not resolved, you attract the singing type to yourself "The situation has a singing father." Do you remember that all your misfortunes are due to the fault of other people, your injury cannot be eliminated. As a result of your reaction to your father, it will be easy for you to feel like you’ve been kicked out by other people of your status, and you’ll always be afraid of kicking out a person of the same status.

The greater the trauma of the thrown person, the more strongly he attracts the environment in which the thrown person appears and himself throws up.

The more you inject yourself, the greater your fear of being injected. He constantly belittles and underestimates himself. He often compares himself with those who feel stronger than him, and thus develops a belief in his superiority. He doesn’t note that in some areas they can change other people’s minds. It’s impossible to believe that anyone would like to associate with him, that someone would want to learn from someone who could be loved in the right way. One mother told me about her children: they tell her what they love, but they don’t understand why they love them!

Everything turns out in such a way that the flow is constantly alive in an unknown state: when you rob someone, you don’t believe it and throw it away to yourself – sometimes the tableau, which actually provokes the situation; If you don’t rob someone, then you feel thrown out by others. One young man from a rich family of children, who did not give anything to his father, why the child developed a categorical belief that all other children are more beautiful than that. And there is nothing surprising in the fact that now daddy is always robbing one of them. Things got worse.

It’s not uncommon to say (and think) that all your thoughts don’t lead to anything. When respect is lost on someone, he is ruined, he begins to give in that he is taking up even more space. Since he occupies a lot of space, it seems that he will be respected by those whom he influences. The flow in the mother's womb does not occupy a prominent place. In the sayings, extinguish until the injury will not be eliminated.

Whenever he speaks and interrupts him, he takes it as proof that he is not ready to be heard and shuts down. A person who is not burdened by the trauma of someone who has been thrown out, has the ability to work on the idea that it turned out to be unavoidable - but not himself! In the end, it’s so important to figure out your thoughts if you don’t force him: I imagine that the spies will induce confrontation from someone and throw him out.

As long as there is something to eat and care for, but the people are busy, then you won’t say anything. He knows what he wants, but he doesn’t dare to ask for it, respectfully, but it’s not so important to bully others.

Many wives admit that even in their early childhood they stopped trusting their mother for fear of not being reasonable. You must believe that to be wise means to be a kohanoi. For an hour, one after another, there is nothing sleepy. To love does not mean to accept someone else, even if you don’t understand him. Through this process, the stench becomes noticeable in the rose. And it turns out that they have been trying to figure out the subject of discussion all hour long, and are afraid to proceed before anything else. Naturally, the stink occurs not only with the mother, but with other women. Since the inflow is a man, then this is how his relationship with his father and other men develops.

Another important power is applied to everyone to the utmost, so as not to be afraid: it is important that if you start pardoning, then condemn him, and if you condemn him, you will Let's throw it. If you don’t trust the authorities’ thoroughness, then you are trying to compensate for the thoroughness of what you are working on. Unfortunately, he confuses “buti” and “work.” The search for thoroughness can reach the point of obsession. He so passionately wants to work all the time without thinking that the skin of the robot takes away an incredible amount of time. And, when finished, they themselves throw it through.

Reaching their boundaries, the inflower’s fear turns into panic. Just thinking about the possibility of panic, we are wondering where to go, where to go, where to go. You want to leave, because you know: when you start to panic, you won’t destroy the place. It is important that, having gone somewhere, you will not be afraid. Once you have made the transition, your failure will cause you to panic, so that it is easy for you to succumb to it, apparently if there is no reason for it. Bazhanya flow in, sink deeply into the power of the flow; The episodes of regression have been more than once limited to the embryonic stage. Such people revealed that they wanted to hug their mother’s stomach - another evidence of how early it begins.

Attracting to oneself, like a mute magnet, people and situations of which one is afraid, it also provokes situations for which one is to blame for panic. This fear, naturally, dramatizes those who are experiencing it even more. You will always know how to properly explain yourself in the event of deception.

It is especially easy to panic and groan out of fear in the presence of your father or other people (especially when it is difficult to guess whose father is). I don’t feel any fear with my father and other people of advanced status; it’s much easier for me to get along with them. I also noticed that the word “panic” appears frequently in the dictionary. You can say, for example: “I feel a panicky fear in the Duma about those who need to fire.” Call the person and just tell him that it’s important for her to get out of the chicken.

Ours is to try to stop him as much as we can so that we don’t mark our injuries. Why? We ourselves have seen this mandate. Unknown. We are so afraid of experiencing pain again, associated with a skin injury, that we let go of our hair, rather than admit to ourselves that we are suffering from the waste that we throw out to ourselves. And those who throw us up have come into our lives to show us how much we throw ourselves up.

The fear of nervous panic in many situations can be so intense that your memory is lost. You might think that someone has a problem with memory, but in reality, someone has a problem with fear. During the hour of the seminars on the course “Become a mass activist-vitivnik”, I more than once saw the following picture: one of the participants, immediately, is obliged to appear before the decision to inform and hold a mini-conference; However, if you are well prepared and know your material, fear continues to grow to such a level that everything goes out of your head. Sometimes he simply loses his body, and he freezes before us like a paralyzed sleepwalker. Fortunately, this problem is gradually emerging as the world lives through its trauma of being thrown out.

It’s important to be careful how our injuries spill over into our work. People live their physical body according to the same pattern as their mental and emotional lives. The flow gives advantage to small portions; He often loses his appetite when he experiences attacks from fear or other strong emotions. Of all the above types, the one who is most susceptible to anorexia is the one who seems to be like a hedgehog, because he seems to be too great and admired, although in reality it’s all the same. The change of the vagi is lower than the norm, the visnazhennya is a yogo try to understand. Sometimes the appetite overwhelms, and then the influent greedily pounces on the hedgehog - and then tries to get rid of the hedgehog. However, this method of importation is rarely used; They are most often exposed to alcohol and drugs.

People may be weak to the point of licorice, especially if they have strong fear. Fear takes away a lot of people's energy, so it is natural to assume that introducing the sugar into the body can make up for the loss. It works, the tsukor gives energy, but, unfortunately, it doesn’t last long, so you have to repeat it in this way too often.

Our traumas respect us as themselves; Through this, blocks appear in the body, like a legacy of illness. The skin type is characterized by its own particular illnesses and illnesses, which are indicated by its internal mental structure.

The action is typical for the treatment of illness and illness.

• Vin often suffers from diarrhea - he throws up, throws out his food before, his lower body reclaims its living elements, thus throwing up a situation that could be beneficial for him.
• Many people suffer from ARRHYTHMIA - irregular heart rhythm. When the heart begins to beat like a madman, they feel as if they want to escape from their chests and fly; This is another form of relief from a sick situation.
• I already said earlier that the wound of the thrown table is painful, so it is quite logical to develop hatred for his father, who, while still a child, was convicted of taking away his suffering. However, you can't help but think and know about the origins of this hatred. By not giving yourself the right to hate your father, you can end up falling ill with cancer: this illness is associated with bitterness, anger, hatred - with mental pain that is experienced on one’s own. As soon as people decide to come to know what they hated or hated their father, there will be no cancer. Someone may develop an illness if he continues to make a fortune until his father thinks of it, but there won’t be cancer. Cancer manifests itself most often in those who have suffered a lot, but in those who are deprived of themselves. It’s really important to get over this thing that your father and mother hate, and it also means recognizing yourself as evil and heartless; This also means knowing what you are telling your dad, who you feel is what he is telling you. Vtikach does not give himself the right to be a child. We force maturation, respectfully, so that we suffer less from our injury. For these reasons, the child’s body (and every part of it) predicts the child’s body. Cancerous illness indicates those who have not given the child the right to suffer in themselves. You have not accepted what is humanly fair - to hate your father, whom you respect as the culprit of your suffering.
• Among other illnesses characteristic of influx, we may also experience impairment of respiratory functions, especially during the hour of panic.
• Vtika is susceptible to allergies – this is a form of unpleasantness, such as having experienced or experienced in relation to the best products of food or speech.
• You can use Vomit as a sign of anticipation of a singing person or situation. I felt the following words from the followers: “I want to kill my mother (or father).” In this case, you often feel the need to “punish” a situation or an unbearable peculiarity, and you can express yourself with the words: “This is a boring person” or “I can’t be bothered by your abilities.” All these are ways to figure out what you want to throw out.
• Dizziness or fainting are also suitable conditions when you really want to escape the situation or people.
• In serious episodes, the duck swears as COMA.
• For anyone who suffers from agoraphobia, this disorder is important if you want to avoid certain situations and people who throw you into a new panic (a report on this behavioral disorder will be discussed in section 3).
• If the leakage of the cartilage is harmful, it can provoke diseases of the subpillar gland, such as HYPOGLYCEMIA or DIABETES.
• If he has accumulated too much hatred for his father’s legacy of suffering, experienced and experienced by him as if thrown out, and if he has not reached his emotional and mental boundaries, then DE can develop in him. DEPRESSIVE or MANIC-DEPRESSIVE stage. If he is plotting self-destruction, then don’t talk about it, but if you get to the point, then he conveys everything so as not to admit failure. Those who often talk about self-destruction and ask to have mercy, if you go to the next step, will soon fall into the category of the abandoned; We will talk about them at the next stage.
• Since childhood, it is important to recognize oneself as a full-fledged human being, because he is either a hero or heroine who adores him, and he is ready to ruin himself, to disobey his idol - for example, a young girl passionately desires Meryl in Monroe; It’s worth noting that you won’t believe it but kimos yet. The danger of such treatment of behavior in someone who can quickly develop into PSYCHOSIS.

It is most common among those who are ill and unwell and in people with other types of injuries, but still most often occur in those who feel groggy.

If you know the trauma of being thrown away, then it is even less certain that your father, the same person as you, also feels like he was thrown by his father; More than that, there is even a high level of confidence that you will also feel thrown out. Although you may not be familiar with each side, this is true and confirmed by thousands of users.

Remember: the main reason for suffering any kind of injury is the inability to pay for a wound inflicted on oneself or other people. It’s really important to treat yourself because, as a rule, we don’t know what we’re doing to ourselves. No matter how deep your wound of being thrown is, it mercilessly points to those that you throw at yourself - or you throw other people, situations and projects.

We are afraid of being different from what we shouldn’t recognize in ourselves..

That’s why we bring these people in to show us how we behave with others and with ourselves.

Another way to be aware of what we are throwing away to ourselves and to other people is rubbish. To be honest, we feel like we are experiencing a loss if we want to control our behavior. It’s normal – you know bad behavior in which we respect others. We don’t even want the stench to reveal that we are behaving this way.

Remember: everything described above is experienced only in the context when a person who is suffering, thrown up, decides to wear a mask of the intruder, respectfully, because such a unique suffering is proportional to the depth of the injury. This mask should be worn in some cases for a short period of time, in others - for a period of time.

The behavior characteristic of a bullied person is dictated by the fear of repeating the suffering of the dumped person. Or maybe it is so that you recognize yourself in the things described above as peculiarities of behavior, but not in your ears. A complete reduction of all characteristics is practically impossible. Skin injuries are demonstrated by their forms of behavior and internal conditions. The way a person thinks, feels, speaks and acts (likely before his injuries), means his reaction to everything that happens in life. The peculiarity of the reaction system cannot be equally important, it cannot be concentrated in one’s heart, one cannot perceive the goodness and happiness. Why is it so important to inform you when you react, and when you lose yourself. If you do this, then you have the opportunity to become the ruler of your life, and not allow fears to overwhelm it.

In whose section I wanted to help you recognize the trauma of the thrown. If you recognize yourself in the influx, then in the remaining section you will find more information about how to cope with this injury, how to become yourself again and not suffer from the feeling that you are throw. If you don’t recognize this trauma in yourself, then I would like you to turn to those who know you well, for confirmation; It is not allowed to turn off the pardon. As I already said, the injury of the acquired person may not be severe, and then you will have less than the characteristic rice of an influx. I guess we should trust the physical description first, because the physical body is not at all a breach, in contrast to his master, who is entirely dedicated to deceiving himself.

If you reveal this trauma to someone else, you are not guilty of trying to change it. Please learn more about everything that you learn from this book in order to develop a greater sensitivity to other people in order to better understand the nature of their reactive behavior. And better yet, don’t let them read this book themselves, if they become interested in the problem, then try to explain it.

Characteristics of thrown injury

Awakening Trauma: from the moment of conception to one fate; h father of his polo. Chi does not feel the right to sleep.

Mask: duck.

Father: same articles

Tilo: squeaky, narrow, loud, fragmenting.

Ochi: mali, with a look of fear; the mask is worn around the eyes.

Dictionary: “nothing” “nobody” “doesn’t dream” “to know” “to force me to see...”

Character: Extraction of material Pragneniya to the utmost detail. Intelligence. Go through the stages of great love to periods of deep hatred. You don’t believe in your right to sleep. Sexual problems. He respects himself to no one for reasons of necessity or worthlessness. Pragna is relieved. It's fading. It will be incomprehensible. Know different ways to live. Easily reaches the astral plane. It's important that you don't understand. You cannot allow your inner child to live in peace.

Worst fear, panic.

life: Appetite often disappears due to the influx of emotions or fear of eating in small portions. Tsukor, alcohol and drugs are ways to escape. Agility to the point of anorexia.

Typical illness: Skirni · Diarrhea · Arrhythmia · Impaired respiratory functions · Allergies · Vomiting · Restlessness · Noma · Hypoglycemia · Diabetes · Depression · Suicidal behavior · Psychosis.

PHYSICAL COMPLEXITY (thrown-out injury)

We wonder in the dictionaries what the words vіdkinuti, vіdkinutiy mean. Dictionaries give a number of synonymous terms: відстовхнів; put your head down, get excited; do not tolerate; not allow; Vistaviti.

Often people forcefully grasp the difference between two concepts - “thrown out” and “abandoned”. To deprive someone means to leave someone for the sake of someone or something else. To quit means to quit, to not want to get things in order with yourself and your life. Vikorista virus: "I don't want", And to the one who leaves, it seems: "I can't".

Buti znekhtuvanim - the trauma is very deep; znaechtuvaniya considers it as a matter of its very essence, as a reservation of one’s right to life. Of all five injuries, the thrown one appears first, which means that the cause of such trauma in the life of the individual is blamed first for others. The soul that has turned to Earth as a way of celebrating this trauma appears to have been mastered from the very moment of birth, and in many cases - even earlier.

The obvious butt is an ungodly child, who was born into the world “out of whimsicality.” If the soul of whose uncontrollable life has not entered into the experiences of the experienced, so that it has not managed to lose itself and continue in kindness, regardless of hostility, then we will inevitably experience the state of the thrown. Yaskraviy vipadok – ditina not these articles. There are no other reasons why the father abandons his child; It is very important for us here to realize that only those souls who need to survive to the bitter end of being abandoned tend to turn out to be fathers or fathers of the singing type: and fathers will inevitably abandon their children.

It often happens that the father does not have the intention of abandoning the child, the child feels seized by the skin, or by a frictional drive - after a form of respect, and if one of the fathers experiences anger, impatience Nya too. If the wound is not healed, it is very easy to irritate. The people, who seem to be familiar, are not objective. He interprets all ideas through the filters of his trauma, and senses what is thrown out, or becomes inflamed, if possible, and demonstrates effectiveness.

From that very day, when the unloved thought was thrown into itself, the mask begins to vibrate Vtikacha. I have had occasion to act with caution and grace many times regressions in the embryonic camp, And I realized that a person with the trauma of being thrown out in the womb feels even when he is small, tries to take a small place there, and even in the new age he constantly experiences darkness and darkness. This confirmed my guess about those masks vtikacha You can start forming before the people are born.

I ask you to note that from now until the end of the book I will use the term “influx” to designate the peculiarity that suffers from the complex of being thrown out. Mask vtikacha- here is another, new feature, character, which develops as a result of the suffering of the one thrown away.

This mask appears physically licks statues, like bodies (or parts of bodies), whatever you want to come into being. Vuzke, stislo, nibi are specially designed so that they are easier to lick, take up less space, and are not visible among others. This whole body doesn’t want to take up a lot of space, it takes on the image flows that licks And all my life will not occupy the least amount of space. If you are a human being, I look like a disembodied primara - “skin and brush” - you can, with a high level of sensitivity, notice that she is suffering from deep trauma of the thrown up essence.

Vtikach- this is special, because there is doubt about one’s right to life; It would seem that it was not completely infused. That’s why her body copes with the feeling of the unfinished, the incomplete, which is formed from the worst possible fragments. The left side of an individual, for example, can be clearly visible from the right side, and it is not visible to the naked eye and there is no need to check it with an additional ruler. Guess, before speaking, why are you rich in people with ideally symmetrical sides of the body?

If I’m talking about an “incomplete” body, then I pay attention to those parts of the body, so that no whole pieces are lost (buttocks, breasts, chin, brushes, smaller parts of the body, depressions in the back, chest, abdomen, etc.) .

Having seen how such a person shakes (shoulders slumped forward, arms pressed to the body), we say that her body twisted. An enemy develops that blocks the growth of the body and its parts; or sometimes some parts of the body are cut apart from others; and the people started looking like grown up in children.

A deformed body that screams out pity, it’s red to talk about those that people carry with them the trauma of being thrown out. First of all, the soul itself has taken on this whole body in order to put itself in a situation where we can accept this trauma.

Characteristic peculiarity vtikacha There are small faces and eyes. The eyes appear empty or empty, so that especially with such an injury it is difficult to go to one’s world or “to go to the Month” (to the astral plane). Often your eyes are filled with fear. Watching out for accusing vtikacha You can literally notice the mask on someone, especially on the eyes. You yourself often see, never wonder at the world behind the mask. Deyaks inflows I knew that the masks on their faces sometimes last the whole day, and at other times they sweat for a few minutes. It’s not as important as it’s disturbing; It is important that this method is not for the one who is going to be around.

Do not be present so as not to suffer.

The presence of all the above-mentioned signs indicates that the trauma of the thrown is very deep, which means that in a person with a single sign - for example, only in the eyes vtikacha. If the body is powerful, let's say, half the sign vtikacha You can assume that people don’t wear a mask for the whole hour, but for about half. What can be done, for example, by people with a great body, but with small faces and small eyes vtikacha or a person with a great body and very short tassels. If you are constantly on the lookout for signs of being thrown out, then the injury is less profound.

Wear a mask – don’t be yourself. Even in childhood we vibrate not yours manner of behavior, with respect, to steal us. The first reaction of human essence, as it has acquired itself, is to flow in, to lick, to disappear. The baby feels like she’s thrown up and puts on a mask vtikacha Sound alive in obvious light. For these reasons, he is most often reasonable, reasonable, quiet and does not cause problems.

Finally, relax in your obvious light and the castles will be restored. It is important to remember that his fathers are not helping, that the stench has confused the newborns at the doctor’s office. Such children have no way of getting home; One of them is to walk to school more often. However, having arrived before school and realizing that they had acquired it there (or giving it to themselves), the stench wreaks havoc in the powerful world, “on the Month.” One woman divorced me and felt like a “tourist” at school.

On the other hand, a child of this type wants to be marked, but does not want to be assured of her right to birth. I will remember one girl who grabbed the groom at that moment when her fathers were greeting the guests at the door of the booth. When they noticed that there was no baby, everyone rushed to joke. She didn’t leave her closet, although she thought well, as the anxiety of grown-ups grows. Vona said to herself: “I want the stink to be known to me. I want the stinks to understand what I mean.”. This girl was not so sure of her right to sleep, which was in control of the situation, so that her right could be confirmed.

Typology of characters (Olexander Lowen and Lisa Bourbo)

1. Trauma of the thrown - mask of the thrown - schizoid type

Characteristics of a thrown injury:

Awakening Trauma: from the moment of conception to one fate; with your daddy's article. Chi does not feel the right to sleep.

Mask: duck.

Father: same articles

Tilo: squeaky, narrow, loud, fragmenting.

Ochi: mali, with a look of fear; the mask is worn around the eyes.

Dictionary: “nothing”, “nobody”, “not dreaming”, “to emerge”, “to force me to see...”

Character: Extraction of material Pragneniya to the utmost detail. Intelligence. Go through the stages of great love to periods of deep hatred. You don’t believe in your right to sleep.

Sexual problems. He respects himself to no one for reasons of necessity or worthlessness. Pragna is relieved. It's fading. It will be incomprehensible. Know different ways to live. Easily reaches the astral plane. It's important that you don't understand. You cannot allow your inner child to live in peace.

Worst fear: panic.

life: Appetite often disappears due to the influx of emotions or fear of eating in small portions. Tsukor, alcohol and drugs are ways to escape. Agility to the point of anorexia.

Typical illness: Skin, diarrhea, arrhythmia, impaired respiratory function, allergies, vomiting, restlessness, coma, hypoglycemia, diabetes, depression, suicidal illnesses, psychosis.

Illnesses coming in:

Among other illnesses characteristic of importation, we are also likely to be destroyed dihal functions, especially during the hour of panic.

Vtikach shilniy allergies- this image of hostility is not acceptable, as one has experienced and experiences hundreds of delicious food products and speeches.

You can contact me vomit as an indicator of his expectations to the singing people and the situation. I felt the following words from the followers: “I want to kill my mother (or father).” It is often necessary to “punish” a situation and an unbearable peculiarity and can express oneself with the words: “This is a boring person” or “I can’t be bothered by your abilities.” All these are ways to figure out what you want to throw out.

Confused or else innocence- these are also suitable for people who really want to escape the situation or people.

In serious episodes, the duck rages whom.

The one who suffers agoraphobia, this disorder is discussed if you want to avoid certain situations and people who are going to fall into a new panic (a report on this behavioral disorder will be discussed in section 3).

Since the leakage is harmful to the cervix, it can provoke such illnesses of the subcutaneous papillary tract, such as hypoglycemia or else diabetes.

If he has accumulated too much hatred for his father’s legacy of suffering, experienced and experienced by him as if thrown out, and if he has not reached his emotional and mental boundaries, then he can develop depressed or else manic-depressive mill. If he is plotting self-destruction, then don’t talk about it, but if you get to the point, then he conveys everything so as not to admit failure. Those who often talk about self-destruction and ask to have mercy, if you go to the next step, will soon fall into the category of the abandoned; We will talk about them at the next stage.

Since childhood, it is important to recognize oneself as a full-fledged human being, for example, a hero or heroine who adores him, who is ready to ruin himself, to disobey his idol - for example, a young girl passionately desires Meryl in Monroe; It’s worth noting that you won’t believe it but kimos yet.

The danger of this kind of behavior lies in the fact that soon it can go to psychosis.

Structure of schizoid character.

Description

The term “schizoid” is similar to “schizophrenia” and means a person who may be prone to schizophrenia. This includes the splitting of particularities as a single whole, for example, the mind is strengthened by feelings. What people think seems to have little visible connection with what is felt or how it happens; exit from yourself, breaking up and losing contact with the world and with external reality. A schizoid individual is not a schizophrenic and may not become one, but the sensitivity to which illness is present in his particularity is well compensated.

The term “schizoid” describes a person who perceives himself to be altered, who is weak, and whose contact with the body seems to be severely weakened.

Bioenergetic minds

Energy is introduced from the peripheral structures of the body, the very parts where the body comes into contact with excess light: the face, arms, genitals and legs. The stench is not energetically connected to the center, so the arousal from the center does not flow freely to them, but is blocked by chronic meat tension at the base of the head, shoulders, pelvis and hip joints. Therefore, the functions that emerge are reinforced according to the feelings of a person’s heart.

The internal charge is strong until it is caught in the center area. As a result, a weak impulse is formed. Tim is no less, the charge is weak (due to its pressure) and can break through with the appearance of violence or killing. It disappears when the body can no longer flow and the body is refilled with a great amount of energy, because it cannot return. The peculiarity is divided into anonymous parts, as a result of which a schizophrenic state develops.

The defense develops from a pattern of muscle tensions, which constantly and continuously suppress the individuality, not allowing the peripheral structures to be resurfaced with the same energy. Meat tensions, as described above, are consistent with the connection of peripheral organs to contact with the center.

In this way, zakhist is problematic. In the waist area there is an energetic splitting of the body, and as a result - disintegration of the integrity of the upper and lower halves of the body. Bioenergetic analysis is shown in the diagram.

Physical aspects

In most cases, patients with such signs have a tight, tight body. There, where paranoid elements are especially present, the body is taller and more athletic.

The main areas of tension are located at the base of the skull, at the corners of the shoulders, legs, pelvis and in the area of ​​the diaphragm. The rest of the table is pressed, which divides the body into two parts. The main pressures are concentrated in small areas, which indicate articulation. This type of character can be avoided either by extreme harshness or tightness of the corners.

Mask-like appearance. The eyes do not want to be empty, as in schizophrenia, but not living things and do not make contact. The arms hang more like teenagers, less like an extended body. The feet are tense and cold; stinks are often inverted; Body weight is transferred to the outer side of the foot.

There is often a noticeable discrepancy between the two halves of the body. In the case of rich people, the stench does not appear to be such that it belongs to one person.

For example, under stress, when a person assumes an arched position, the line of the body often appears broken. The head, coat and legs are often found one after another under the skin.

Psychological relationships

People don’t feel whole /14/. The tendency to disconnect, which arises on the bodily level through insufficient energetic connections between the head and body, leads to a splitting of individuality. Thus, one can detect a posture of thoughtfulness in one who is married to humiliation or unoccupied, which he feels like he is telling himself. Finally, the body is divided into two parts - upper and lower.

The schizoid character exhibits hypersensitivity as a result of its weak borders, which is a psychological copy of the lack of peripheral charge. This weakness changes the support of his external pressure and undermines his self-defense.

Such people are unique in their close, sensitive ways. In fact, it is very important for them to establish such connections through the marriage of energy in peripheral structures.

Banana always motivates actions and gives schizoid behavior a hint of innocence. This was called “nibi” behavior, because it is based on feelings, but the actions themselves are not clearly feelings.

Here it is important to take steps to better align this structure. This is the sum of the caution of those who, having identified this problem, cherished and analyzed patients with such disorders.

In all cases there is clear evidence that the patients were early abandoned by their mother, and were perceived as a threat to sleep. The lock-up was accompanied by a welcome and often open witchcraft from her side.

The intrigue and witchcraft developed in the patient a fear that if he tried contact, his self-confidence could lead to his own deterioration.

Since childhood, there has been a lack of strong positive feelings of security and joy, often nightmares.

Typical for such patients is both reinforced and emotionless behavior with violent seizures, which is called autistic.

If someone from their father repeatedly got involved in the life of a child during the feeding period (for example, for sexual reasons), which is even more widespread, then a paranoid element was added to the main symptom. This made it possible to be active at the end of childhood and adulthood.

Every child has no choice between reinforcing himself in reality (intensive life) and in his body (abstract mind) in order to live. Due to the fact that the main feelings in him were pain and deadly ferocity, the child grew proud of all the feelings of self-defense.

Dancing style:

· Vtika does not like dancing. If you dance, then your arms are minimal and invisible, you don’t want to be marked. On the new one it is written: “Do not marvel at me for a long time.”

Select car:

· Try to love low-profile cars of a dull color.

Seated posture:

· Feeling tired, trying to take the smallest place in the chair. You really love to tuck your feet under yourself: if you don’t get tied up from the ground, it’s easier to flow in.

Fears:

· Vtika is most afraid of panic. You can’t quite tell, but you know, as soon as someone begins to panic, or sooner, it will happen. It’s easy to panic too much - that’s what your eyes will see again.

Injuries based on gender:

· The trauma of someone thrown out is experienced by his father. Then the influx feels thrown into the guise of the very article that is in itself. He calls them to the one who stinks of him, and perceives greater anger towards them than himself. On the other hand, if you are challenged by the peculiarity of your prostate condition, you will challenge yourself even more. Apparently, at times your anger dominates on yourself. It is clear at this time that there is great confidence that this person of ill health did not leave, but left.

Treatment of injuries:

· Your injury thrown It’s close to rejoicing as you step by step take up more and more space as you begin to affirm yourself. And if it gives you something that doesn’t bother you, it doesn’t knock you out of the stake. Details are more likely to involve situations in which you are afraid to panic.

2. Trauma of the abandoned - mask of the long-term - oral type

Characteristics of abandonment trauma:

Awakening Trauma: Between one and three rocks, with a father in a protracted state, there is not a lot of emotional grub and grub of the singing type.

Mask: Zalezhny.

Tilo: Tightened, thinner, less toned, sagging; the legs are weak, the back is crooked, the arms look incredibly long and hang from the sides of the body, around the parts of the body they look limp and sagging.

Ochi: Great, sumni Attractive look.

Dictionary: “day”, “one”, “I don’t blame”, “eat”, “don’t deprive”.

Character: Victim Shilniy chimes until he gets angry. Requires presence, respect, encouragement, reinforcement. He recognizes difficult people when he has to work and figure out one by one.

It turns around behind the cords, otherwise there will be no trace. Childish voice. It is painful to accept vidmovi. Sadness. Cry easily. Pity screams. Sometimes joyful, sometimes sad. Physically cares about others. Nervoviy. Zirka Variety. Pragna to independence. Love sex.

Worst fear: Self-identity

life: Garniy appetit. Bulimia. Loving meat is a hedgehog. There is enough.

Typical illness: Back pain, asthma, bronchitis, migraines, hypoglycemia, agoraphobia, diabetes, epithelial diseases, short-sightedness, hysteria, depression, rare diseases (which require extreme respect), non-violent illnesses.

Ailments of the abandoned:

Asthma- illness, which is characterized by difficult, painful symptoms. From a metaphysical perspective, this illness indicates that people take more, less of it, and face great difficulties.

Problems with bronchi Also, fragments of the bronchus are metaphysically related to the family. If a long-term person suffers from bronchial illnesses, then you can tell about his family dissatisfaction: it seems that he takes too little away from his family, which is too much for him to lie down. I would like to believe in those who have a place in this family, and not be confused, wondering about its place.

Under the infusion of their fusic subspecialty, the depository attracts problems subsluice vine(hypoglycemia and diabetes) and nadnirkovyh vines. The entire pickling system is unstable, because he considers his food to be inadequate, although physically it is completely normal. Regardless of the fact that lack affects only one person emotionally, his physical body receives awareness of the lack and reacts in a similar way - it suppresses the mental state.

Short-sightedness among long-standing people, it occurs just as often. This represents the inability to travel far away, and this is due to the fear of the future and, especially, the undue risk of self-exertion.

The lazy one, who overly weaves his sacrificial subspecialty, can bring himself to hysteria. Psychologists say that a hysterical person is like a child who is afraid that her pacifier will be taken away and she will be deprived of one. That’s why he’s so skilled at loudly demonstrating his emotions.

The rich fallow land is developing depression, if this injury causes severe suffering and the smell feels hopeless, do not get rid of the pain that you have to kill. This is a way to gain respect.

Zalezhny is suffering migraines the one who respects himself as himself blocks his “I”. You have to rush around, go to all sorts of tricks, to be the person everyone else wants you to be, or to practically live in the shadows of the people who love you.

I also noticed that deposits often attract to themselves Rare diseases, which deserve special respect, because this is the name non-violent illnesses. I’ll guess that if medicine denounces the disease as a non-violent one, then in fact it says that science more I have not found any reliable remedies against this illness.

Those suffering from illness and illness can be careful especially with other types of trauma, but for those who are experiencing the trauma of abandonment, the stinks become more intense.

The structure is oral in nature.

Description

We describe the peculiarity as an oral structure of character, as it has a lot of peculiarities, typical for the oral period of life, i.e. childhood. These characteristic rices have a weaker sense of independence, a refusal to fight for others, a reduced aggressiveness and an internal sense of need for support, assistance and turbo. The stench signifies a lack of development in childhood and becomes a stage of fixation on this level of development. For some people, the stench is masked by deliberately accepted positions to compensate. Individuals with this structure exhibit greater independence, such as resistance, and are unable to withstand stress. The main evidence of an oral nature is unconvinced, since the main evidence of the schizoid structure was the vomiting.

Bioenergetic minds

“Oral character” is characterized by a low energy level. The energy is “not frozen” in the center, as in a “schizoid character,” but rather flows to the periphery of the body, rather than weakening.

The reasons for this are not entirely clear. At the first place, linear growth is placed, which results in a much thinner body. The only possible explanation is that shading in adults allows the bones to grow excessively. Another official then may be the failure of undeveloped meats to trim the growth of cysts under control.

The lack of energy and strength is most noticeable in the lower part of the body, because the development of a child’s body begins from the head down.

Equally charge the point of contact with the excess light of the decreases. Eyes are weak with a tendency to myopia, the level of genital awakening decreases.

This bioenergy plant is shown in the diagram.

Physical characteristics

The body is rather thin, consistent with Sheldon’s ectomorphic type. It emerges from the body of schizoid characteristics because it is not quite tense.

The muscles are weakly flexible, not sinewy. This short development is most noticeable in the arms and legs. Long-term unevenness of the legs is a sign of the structure. The feet are also thin and narrow. Legs, it seems, are impossible to trim the body. Adjust the settings to ensure additional support for durability.

The body can drop sharply due to partial weakness of the meat system. Sometimes these are hidden physical signs of immaturity. The pelvis may be smaller in both men and women. There is often little hair on the body. In some women, the growth process is completely inhibited, and their bodies are similar to those of children.

Dihannia is especially oral in nature, which is explained by the low energy level of its peculiarity. Decreases in the oral level reduce the strength of the sctal impulse. Garne dikhannya lie down in the direction of the building and gain the wind.

Psychological relationships

People with an oral character recognize difficulties when standing on their feet in a literal and figurative sense. You should stop fighting or fight for others. Ale, as I indicated earlier, this short period of time may be greeted with an excessive pose of independence. Collectivism also means that the manifestations of lack of knowledge exist on their own. There is a strong need for contact with other people, for their warmth and encouragement.

An individual with an oral character suffers from an internal feeling of being empty. You always want to replenish this empty container for others, although you can do so without providing support. The inner emptyness reflects the strangulation of an intense feeling of almost strong pain, which, if expressed, would lead to deep crying and free breathing.

Due to a low energy level, a personality with an oral character is susceptible to a bad mood, from depression to burying. Sluggishness to depression is pathognomonic for oral characteristics in particular.

Another typical oral rice is a position - but not guilty. This can be expressed in the idea that marriage can provide you with money for sleeping. This seems to be a reconciliation completely from early knowledge.

Etiological and historical factors

Early relief can be through active loss of heat and support for the mother in the wake of death or illness, or whatever the need arises to deal with. The mother, who herself suffers from depression, cannot be allowed to see the child.

Often early development is revealed, it is important to say that you should go earlier, or not. I will explain this development as I will try to overcome the feeling of abandonment, having become independent.

Also, other experiences of disappointment often emerge in early life, if a child tries to reach out to her father or brothers and sisters for contact, warmth and encouragement. Such disappointment can take away a person’s sense of bitterness.

Typical are depressive episodes at the end of childhood and early adolescence. However, children with the oral type do not exhibit autistic behavior in relation to children with the schizoid type. We know that schizoid elements can be in the oral structure, just as the oral ones are in the schizoid.

Dancing style:

· The stale one gives advantage to contact dances, in which there is the ability to press close to a partner. Sometimes it seems that you can rely on your partner. His whole essence is expressed: “Look how my partner loves me.”

Select car:

· Zalezhny gives preference to cars that are comfortable and not like everyone else’s.

Seated posture:

· The lay person rests in the chair or leans against a support - on the armrest or the back of the chair. The upper part of the body is tilted forward.

Fears:

· Selfishness instills the greatest fear in a layperson. You don’t have to worry about anyone, so that you will always be in such a way that you will be in a marriage. If it does appear on its own, then, of course, it knows what is on its own; However, he doesn’t notice that he’s feverishly looking for something to do to fill the hour. There is no physical partner, the telephone and TV replace my company. It is much easier for those close to you to notice, having sensed this great fear of self-worth that is instilled in people. You can see it with dim eyes.

Injuries based on gender:

· The trauma of being abandoned is experienced by a father who suffers from chronic illness. It’s important to respect the old man, who can deprive people of their status, and call them more for themselves. As he experiences the reality of being abandoned in the face of his status, he blames himself for the fact that he has not yet shown sufficient respect or the wisdom to appreciate his respect. It often happens that when we say that this accusation left him, but actually threw him away.

Treatment of injuries:

· Your injury abandoned close to healing, as you feel better about yourself and as you require less respect. Life doesn’t seem so dramatic anymore. You increasingly feel the need to start different projects, and realize that others are not helping you, and you can continue to do the same yourself.

3. Trauma of the humiliated – mask of a masochist – masochistic type

Characteristics of the injury are reduced:

Awakening Trauma: from one to three years of age, with a father who is involved in the physical development of the child (namely the mother). The lack of freedom. It feels like humiliation through control from the side of your dad.

Mask: Masochist.

Tilo: Thick, round, short in stature, thick neck, tension in the throat, neck, gap and pelvis. Exposing yourself around, open up.

Dictionary: “gіdny”, “gіdny”, “small”, “tosty”

Character: You often waste yourself and others, or you are afraid of getting dirty with rubbish. Do not like skipping. He knows his needs, otherwise he won’t listen to them. I put a lot of weight on my shoulders. Make sure to control it so that the debris is eliminated.

He respects himself as a shameless, heartless, swine, a girshoy for others. Cute to the point of being angry. It is controlled in such a way as not to be free, since being strong for someone means that it is not streamable. Sometimes there is a fault of not striving, then one is afraid to step between what is permitted.

Loving the role of mother. Super sensitive. He punishes himself, respectfully, as he punishes anyone else. Pragna, I want to be happy. Often I sense an error. Increased sensitivity goes hand in hand with sexual behavior. Doesn't care about his sexual needs. Playing with someone else.

Worst fear: Freedom

life: Love sieve, fatty hedgehogs, chocolate, or, for example, eat in small portions. It’s a shame to bathe yourself and experience the “weasels.”

Typical illnesses: Pain in the back, shoulders, throat, sore throat, laryngitis, illness of the respiratory tract, legs, feet, varicose veins, sprained ligaments, fractures, impaired liver function, thyroid gland, skin itching, hypoplasia glycemia, diabetes, heart disease.

Ailments of the humbled:

Pain in the back and take into account the severity of shoulders Because the masochist bears a lot of burden on himself. The pain at the back of thoughts is more important than the seeming lack of freedom. Pain in the lower part of the back is usually associated with material problems, while in the upper part it is associated with the emotional sphere.

Someone may be sick Dikhalnykh Shliakhiv if you suffocate other people's problems.

Inconsistencies with kicksі feet — varicose veins,stretching,fractured If you are afraid that you will not be able to change your shoes, then you incur physical inconveniences that effectively prevent you from changing your shoes.

The work often breaks down cookies, because it is extremely difficult to be overwhelmed by the problems of other people.

Pain in throat, sore throatі laryngitis- Inevitable companions of a masochist, which he constantly streams to himself whenever he wants to say something, and especially to speak.

The more important it is for you to make your needs known and declare your benefits, this is why you are more likely to get sick thyroid gland.

In addition, inability to control a little power consumption often provokes scab, itchy skin. Apparently, the expression “I’m so itching...” means “I’m terribly hungry...”, and if the masochist suppresses his cravings, it’s a shame for him to be satisfied with his hair.

Another physical problem that I often watch out for in people of the masochistic type is the rottenness of the undergrowth and, as a result, hypoglycemiaі diabetes. These ailments manifest themselves in the way that it is important to allow oneself to feel kindness and contentment, and when one allows oneself, then they are tormented by a feeling of guilt and humiliation.

Great masochist to our hearts because it is not enough to love yourself. He doesn’t respect himself enough with meaningful value to bring himself satisfaction. The heart sphere in people is directly related to their desire to achieve contentment for the sake of life.

Finding yourself firmly in the face of the inevitability of suffering, the masochist often tells himself to endure surgical delivery.

The structure of a masochistic character.

Description

In the Duma, masochism equates to extreme suffering. I don’t think this is true for an individual with this structure of character. He suffers, and unless he himself is able to change the situation, he asks again that he wants to lose himself in it. I'm not talking about people with masochistic concerns, about people who want to take blows from their sexual partners. The structure of the masochistic character describes a person who suffers and groans and hides, but loses his composure. Submissiveness is the main masochistic sign.

As an individual with a masochistic character demonstrates an easier development of current behavior, he is completely different in the middle. On a deep emotional level, there are strong feelings of aggression, inhibition, stratagem and advantage. However, the stench is

are completely blocked by fear and can escape into what is called inappropriate behavior. People repair the fear of the abyss for the help of meat streaming paterns. Those strong thoughts flow out in any direct manifestation and allow only the pain and misery to pass.

Bioenergetic minds

In addition to the oral structure, the masochistic structure is energetically charged. Prote the charge of fixing in the middle, although not “frozen”.

Through strong streaming, the peripheral organs are charged weakly, so as not to lead to discharge or increased energy, which results in exchange.

The flow of the tablet is stronger, which leads to a contraction and a sudden loss of strength in the body. Weakness is avoided in the waist area, because the body collapses under the stress of its own tension.

Impulses that move up and down are dampened in the neck and waist areas, which explains the strong tendency of these individuals to feel anxiety.

The tension of the body in the senses is reduced or the tension in oneself is greatly reduced. The change in tension means a shortening of the structure described above.

Physical characteristics

For the masochistic structure, the typical ones are people with short, fat, fleshy bodies.

For unknown reasons, body hair may begin to grow.

A characteristic feature is a short neck, which shows a retracted head. The waist is consistently short and thin.

Another important characteristic is the forward pull of the pelvis, which can literally be described as a tucked and flat butt. This pose is similar to a dog with a tail.

This position of the pelvis, due to the stress of the animal, causes collapse or sharp weakening of the body in the waist area.

In some women, there may be increased rigidity in the upper half of the body and masochism in the lower half, expressed by important buttocks and thighs, a tightened pelvic floor.

The skin of all people with a masochistic character has a dark tint due to stagnation of energy.

Psychological relationships

Through more intensive stimulation of aggression in such individuals, it is significantly reduced. Self-assertion is surrounded by a similar rank. Instead of the present, there were skimps and scargs. Nitta is a single sound expression that can easily pass through the throat. In place of aggression, one is careful to avoid provocative behavior that provokes a strong reaction from another person, strong enough to give the possibility of a masochistic reaction in a fiery and inconsistent manner.

The stagnation of energy through the strong flow of the Veda until it feels like “being stuck in a swamp”, making it impossible to collapse freely.

The position of submissiveness and acquiescence is characteristic of masochistic behavior. Obviously, the masochist is identified by the difficulty of coming to terms; however, at the level of our peers, this position gives rise to bitterness, negativity and witchcraft. These oppressions seem to loom in the first place; the lower masochist can react well to everyday situations.

Etiological and historical factors

The masochistic structure develops in the family, where it begins to unite under strong pressure. Mati is dominant and sacrificing; Dad is passive and submissive.

The mother, who dominates, sacrifices herself, literally strangles the child, as she feels a strong guilt for any attempt to voice her independence or confirm the negative attitude.

Typically, there is a strong emphasis on respect for animals and defecation. It’s like the pressure of the beast from below. "Be a good boy. Make your mom happy. I'm going to eat everything... Empty your bowels regularly. Let mom marvel..." and so on.

Everyone tried to repair the operation, including the time-consuming sleeping, irritation, and suffocation. All people with a masochistic structure in their childhood suffered from temporary irritation, as they were threatened to get sick.

With these hidden experiences they felt driven into the past, which provoked a reaction of embitterment that would end in self-destruction. Ditina didn’t give a damn.

Being a child, the patient struggles with deep feelings of humiliation, when he tries to “let him go free” in the form of vomiting, confusion and rebellion.

The masochist is afraid to stretch out an arm or a leg or stretch his neck (the same for his genitals) for fear that they will be cut or burst from them. This character has a strong anxiety about castration. The strongest fear is of being cut from the father’s trays, which were provided for by the farm, and for the singing minds. Let us look at the significance of this report in the current division.

Dancing style:

· The masochist always dances willingly and richly, trying to prove his sensitivity. He dances for the pure joy of dancing. My whole appearance seems to be: Marvel at how sensitive I can be.

Select car:

· The masochist chooses a small, cramped car that can barely accommodate.

Seated posture:

· The masochist sits with his legs spread apart. Most often, he chooses a place that is inappropriate for him, and he feels uncomfortable.

Fears:

· The masochist's greatest fear is freedom.. It doesn’t respect and doesn’t feel free through faceless interactions and demands, as it was invented by itself. On the other hand, it seems absolutely free for those who are absent, so you have to find the right time to work for those who are ready to work. He does not look back at others, praising decisions. It’s true that those who believe that you are shackled, in the eyes of other people, you have the freedom to change your mind, even if you no longer want to. His eyes, wide open to the world, show great interest in everything and the need to experience more than one piece of evidence.

Injuries based on gender:

· The trauma of humiliation is experienced with the mother regardless of the article. This masochistic man is smart to recognize the humiliation of a woman’s status. I'll ring and I'll ring. If he experiences the trauma of humiliation in the face of his human status, then he feels guilty about his behavior and his position in front of this person. You can experience this trauma with your father, who is engaged in his physical training, teaching the child to maintain cleanliness, get used to the skin, and get dressed. If this is your outburst, then you are deprived of stagnation of what has been said to the human or female version.

Treatment of injuries:

· Your injury humiliated It’s close to healing, so before you say it to anyone, you give yourself an hour to think about what meets your needs. You put less pressure on your shoulders and feel more at ease. You stop creating boundaries on your own. You are the one who indulges in profanities and extortions, not realizing that he is careless and unnecessary.

4. Trauma for the sake of - mask of control - psychopathic type

Characteristics of the injury:

Awakening Trauma: at the age of two to four years, with a father of a predecease. The collapse of trust or non-realization in the love and sexual sphere. Manipulation.

Mask: Controlling.

Tilo: Vibrating strength and muscle A person’s shoulders are wider at the back. The woman's quilts are wider and fall behind her shoulders. Chest wheel. He still lives.

Ochi: Saw-like, reassuring look. Eyes that look different at first glance.

Dictionary: “you will understand”, “do you understand?”, “I can”, “I’ll get into it myself”, “I don’t know”, “trust me”, “I don’t trust you”.

Character: Respects even the most respectable and strong Pragna to be special and important. He does not stream his duties and demands, but works hard on himself to stream them. An easy breach.

Manipulator. Spooky. May have a lot of rejuvenation. The mood is nervous. Reconversions that may cause a difference, and it is impossible to reconfigure others. Impatient. Intolerant.

I understand that it's shvidko. Good Vikonavets, because we want to be significant. Circus performer. Trust is important. Chi does not show his affection. Skeptic. Afraid of ruining or getting a goiter.

Worst fear: Roz'ednannya; separation; zrechennya

life: Garniy appetit. There is a shvidko. Adds salt and spices. You may not eat for a long time while studying, but then you lose control.

Typical illnesses: Ailments of control and loss of control, agoraphobia, spasmophilia, disruption of the herbal system, ailments whose names end in -it, oral herpes.

Illness for the sake of:

Agoraphobia is due to its fusionic subspecialty, like that of the long-term resident. On the other hand, agoraphobia, as perceived by the controller, is primarily motivated by the fear of insanity, just as agoraphobia is tied up with the mask of a stale person, and is also motivated by the fear of death. I want to point out here that doctors often confuse agoraphobia with spasmophilia (the meaning of agoraphobia is indicated in section 3).

The controller especially increases problems with control, management - all kinds of disruptions in work. Suglobiv in every body, but most often colonies.

The greatest risk of illness is the loss of control in the active organs of the body. bleeding, article bezsillya, diarrhea ta in.

If you feel absolutely hopeless in any situation, you can be broken paralysis.

Someone often has problems related to herbal system, especially stoveі shlunkom.

Serious illness and illness, the names of which end with -it. Here I refer you to my book “Your body seems to be: Love yourself!”, where it is clearly demonstrated that these illnesses are especially characteristic of individuals who, under the influx of their numbers, are susceptible to impatience, anger and disappointment.

The control person often has oral herpes— it’s because, obviously or unknowingly, the controller respects representatives of the prostate health status as “boring types.” In addition, there is a good sense of control that allows you not to kiss others.

Structure of a psychopathic character.

Description

This structure of character will require some modification. This is the only type of character that has not been described or analyzed in my previous works. It may have a very foldable structure, but for the sake of consistency and clarity, I will describe the simple form of its destruction.

The essence of a psychopathic position is a suppression of feelings. It is classified as schizoid, as it is separated from the senses. His psychopathic personality, like his mind, revolves around his body and senses, especially sexual ones. Why is the term “psychopathy” used?

Its normal function is to encourage the body to warm up, and not to destroy them for the sake of thought. All psychopathic characters have a great investment of energy in the manifest image of a person. Another aspect of this peculiarity is the aversion of power and the need to dominate and control.

The reason why this type of character is complex is because there are two ways to gain control over others. One - not bullying or insisting on something else; In this case, if a person does not call out the bully, then she begins to feel like a victim. The other way is to rush to the people behind the help of a calm approach, which is even more effective against innocent people who are under psychopathic control.

Bioenergetic minds

There are two body types that correspond to two psychopathic structures. The most important type is easier to explain bioenergetically, and I use it for illustration. When power over other people comes to those high above them.

This model has a noticeably decreased energy to the head end of the body with a concomitant change in charge in the lower part of the body. The two halves of the body are noticeably disproportionate, the upper part is larger and more dominant in appearance.

A look of wariness and distrust. Such a person is not close to others and does not understand them. This is characteristic of rice's psychopathic characteristics. There is more tension around the diaphragm and waist, blocking the flow of energy and causing it to flow downwards.

The head is energetically re-engineered. This means that the rosum apparatus is awakened, leading to constant thinking about how to relinquish control and panic over the situation.

The need for control is also directed against itself. The head is being rubbed very painfully (you can’t even rub your head), but also, in your own way, the body is being rubbed painfully in your own way.

Energy mutualism is shown in the diagram.

Physical characteristics

The body of an important type shows disproportionate development in its upper part. This copes with the hostility of a person who is puffed up, and confirms his inflated image. We can safely say that the structure is most important in the upper part.

Vaughn is also hard. The lower part of the body cannot show weakness, typical for the structure of an oral character.

The body is of a different type, which I called calm or ruinous, more correct and does not look like it is puffed up. Shout out for that little beast.

In both episodes there is a disruption in the flow of energy between the two halves of the body. In the first type, the pelvis is weakly charged and trimmed harshly; for the other, there is a need for charging rather than insulating. The resentment of the tipi looms clearly under the pressure of the diaphragms.

There is noticeable tension in the eye segment of the body, which includes the eye area.

Thus, the strongest muscle tension can be applied to the cervical region of the base of the skull, the so-called oral segment. This voltage is connected to the strangled impulse that begins.

Psychological relationships

Psychopathic personality needs someone to control, and although it may seem that it controls a person, it still lies behind it. Thus, the stage of orality is at the core of all psychopathic characteristics. Psychiatric literature describes the stench as being similar to oral fixation.

The need to control is closely related to the fear of being under control. Being under control means being victorious. It is important for us that in the past, individuals with this structure of character are less likely to struggle for dominance and control between father and child.

The anger will be high, reach the floors strongly, so that people cannot allow or allow injuries. It’s good to put them in the position of a victim; ergo, he can be a survivor in any situation.

Sexuality is also always victorious in this game. Vin (people) is calm in his given power or in a soft, dark calm. Satisfaction in sex is suddenly equaled by achievements and conquests.

The list of feelings corresponds to the list of needs. A psychopathic maneuver of such peculiarity is to force other people to demand it, so that you do not have to meet your needs. In this manner, we will always be at the center of the world.

Etiological and historical factors

In all types of character, a person explains their behavior. I could make a secret statement that every person cannot understand their behavior because they do not know their past.

Thus, one of the main tasks of any therapy is to explain the patient’s everyday life. Although this particularity is a concern, it often seems complicated, since the psychopathic tendency to suppress feelings includes suppressing knowledge. Regardless of this, bioenergetics has a lot of experience in avoiding this problem.

The most important official in this etiology will be the sexually acquisitive one who will deceive my father. Spokes are covered and awake in order to satisfy the narcissistic needs of the father. The focus is on tying the child to the father.

A fastidious father - the father always throws up, which raises the child’s needs in maintaining physical contact. The lack of necessary contact and support explains the oral element of this structure and its character.

The timid little ones create a trikutnik, which places the child in the station and throws a cry to the father’s very same article. This creates a barrier for the necessary identification with the battery of one article and further identification with the sensitive battery.

In this situation, if the contact is within reach, the child will be extremely discordant. The child will either rise above her needs (upward displacement), or she will satisfy her needs with the help of her father’s manipulation (the quiet type).

The psychopathic personality also has a masochistic element, which stems from its subordination to the squeamish father. A child cannot rebel or respond to this situation, including internal defense. The dressing should lie on the surface; Prote in this world, in which a child grows up openly, she grows very close to her father.

Masochistic elements are strongest in the seductive or seductive variant of this character structure. Pochatkov's act may turn into a masochistic role. Then, if the slackness and sweetness of another human being is demanded, the viciousness of sadists is to blame.

· The controller teases in a booming, booming voice.

Dancing style:

· The person in control needs plenty of space. He loves to dance and skits in order to eat. Let us show ourselves in advance for this new thing. From now on comes the cry: “Wonder at me.”

Select car:

· The controller buys a tough, dirty car.

Seated posture:

· In control, sit with your entire body thrown back and arms crossed when you hear. Having taken the floor, he leans forward to look like he is overthinking in the eyes of the spy.

Fears:

· The controller barks the most at the disclaimer and the words. He does not notice how he himself intensively creates problems and conflict situations, which ultimately include conflicts with other people. Creating, attracting situations that immediately appear in front of someone, don’t worry about those who are afraid of these situations. On the off chance, he sings to himself that he has created that saying for a new friend. Vin thinks that by doing this he is preventing himself from being fooled or cheated. His friendliness and willingness to meet new people make me aware of how many people have grown up in their lives. It’s much more beautiful to learn more. And you can also see his eyes. When the wine rots, the stench becomes bitter and inspires the fear that comes from new riches.

Injuries based on gender:

· My father is suffering from trauma due to his illness. This control person respects the fact that he or she is suffering from people suffering from the disease, and is sensitive to their feelings and emotions. If he is experiencing trauma due to the revelations of his status, then he calls himself a boss and gets angry for those who do not have the senses to convey and promptly avoid this knowledge. It is quite clear that those who seem to be happy on the side of his status, in fact, realize that he is activating the trauma of injustice.

Treatment of injuries:

· Your injury for the sake of close to healing, as you no longer experience such turbulent emotions, when something will ruin your plans. You loosen your grip more easily. Let me remind you: to loosen your grip means to relax your cunningness until the result, to indulge your desire, so that everything goes according to your plan. You are no longer the center of gravity. If you feel proud of your work, you feel good about it if others do not celebrate or recognize your merits.

5. Trauma of injustice - rigid mask - rigid type

Characteristics of injustice trauma:

Awakening Trauma: There are four up to six rocks, with the father of his article Ob'vyazok will be finalized and thoroughly completed. Blocking of particularity.

Mask: Rigidny.

Tilo: Straight, crisp and, within the boundaries of the flexible, thoroughly balanced proportions. Round the bottom. Low rise, tight-fitting garment or tight belt. Shackled ruins. The skin is light. The cracks were squeezed. Shiya is tense and straight. Postava is proud.

Ochi: The look is bright, the eyes are bright.

Dictionary: “there are no problems”, “forever, never”, “very good, very kind”, “very specific”, “exactly”, “entirely fair”, “extremely”, “are you fit?”

Character: Pragne to the utmost Zazdrisny. From the outside looking in at your feelings. I often cross my arms. Productive - let's get it done. Overwhelmingly optimistic. Alive, dynamic. It is often true. I really don’t want to go crazy for help.

Laughter through friends - to embrace your sensitivity. The tone of the voice is dry and tense. She doesn’t know what the problem is. Doubts the correctness of your choice. He follows the principle of “who is better, who is worse.”

It accepts forcefully: it respects the unjust to take away less, the lesser, and the even more unjust to take away more.

He rarely allows himself to be satisfied, so he feels guilty through them. He doesn’t care about his humility, he’s too powerful for himself. I control myself. Love the way. Rarely ill, no matter who is merciless to his body. Choleric. Cold, unable to show his feelings. Let's love to look sexually.

Worst fear: Coldness

life: Gives an advantage to salty and licorice herbs. Love everything Khrumke. I control myself so as not to get fat. Complain and come to the truth when you lose control over yourself in a hedgehog.

Typical illnesses: Nervousness (professional), frigidity (in women), premature ejaculation or state of powerlessness (in men). Illnesses from endings on -it- tendinitis, bursitis, arthritis, etc.

Torticollis, constipation, hemorrhoids, spasms and vessels, impaired blood circulation, impaired liver function. Varicose veins, skin diseases, nervousness, sleeplessness, rotten eyes.

The ailments of injustice:

You feel the rigidity of your body as stiffness or else tension in the upper part back, V shii, as well as in gnuchkih dilyankas (chovniki, kolіna, stegna, likti, wrists, etc.). It’s hard to love to crunch your fingers, trying to paint their softness in this way. In a word, they can sense the shell with which their body is worn, but they can’t sense what lies under that shell.

Already zgaduvane Nervove Visnazhennia.

Illnesses, the names of which may be over -it: tendinitis, burse, arthritis. Any kind of illness with such a name indicates almost always in the worst cases - oppression, internal rot in the body.

Rigidny may suffer from pain or crooked neck through those that it is important for you to consider what is wrong, unfair, in your thoughts, without speeches or actions.

They are often careful constipateі hemorrhoids- Through those that are important for you to relax, stop streaming everything.

Characteristics of rigid spasmsі judge- Reactions of peculiarity, sensitivity, chill or stream through fear.

Failure to bring yourself contentment provokes problems bleedingі varicose veins.

Primary problems dry skin.

Prischy On a particular note about the fear of showing mercy, of wasting a person, of appearing not at the height of power.

Rigidni often suffer psoriasis. The stinks cry out to this sickness, so as not to be too good, but to be happy - it would be unfair to others. It’s great that psoriasis often goes away during the holidays, vacations, or during periods when everything goes well and happily.

Often wary of discord cookies through oppression of wrath.

Zvichaine phenomenon - nervousness strictly, although it is important to control the stench well, the stench is unbearable.

Dosing is often avoided sleeplessness, especially in these times when you can’t calm down until you waste your rights right away and thoughtlessly. They think so hard about what they are about to create that they throw up and can no longer sleep.

Ruined dawn to blame through those that it is important for a rigid person to understand, that he has praised a decision not far away and has incorrectly assessed the situation. It is important not to overestimate what it respects incompletely; Whose disease does not suffer so much. He often lives out the expression “It is not clear” - which also does not hide the brightening of his vision.

Structure of rigid character.

Description

The concept of consistency follows the trends of these individuals and is easy to understand - with pride. The head is tilted high, the spine is straight. This would be a positive peculiarity, if not for the fact that pride is withering, and innocence is uncooperative. A rigid character is afraid to give up, equating to conformity and fall. Rigidity is a defense against the masochistic anger that lies at its core.

A person with a rigid character is wary of being scolded, scolded, or caught in the dust. Its generality arises in the form of stream of impulses through opening and expansion. Streaming also means “to rub your back”, hence rigidity. The importance of streaming is based on his strong position with a high level of control over behavior. In addition, it is necessary to maintain the same strong position towards the genitals, thus respecting the peculiarities at both ends of the body, establishing good contact with reality. Unfortunately, the emphasis on reality is perceived as a defense against anguished satisfaction, and at the same time the main conflict in particularity.

Bioenergetic minds

This structure has the potential to have a strong charge at all peripheral points of contact with the outer one, which allows for the possibility of reversing reality before the beginning of action.

The stream is more peripheral, allowing things to flow rather than limiting their expression.

The main areas of tension are deep tissues of the body. Caught in meats that burn and burn, eat one after another and cry out for rigidity.

Naturally, there are different stages of rigidity. When the stream is dead, the people are chewed and vibrated.

The bioenergy plant is shown in the diagram.

Physical characteristics

The body of a person with a rigid character is proportional and harmonious. It looks and feels whole and knitted. Regardless of this, you can also use several elements of destruction and complication described above for other types.

An important characteristic is the vitality of the body: clear eyes, the dark color of the skin, the vitality of gestures and hands.

If the rigidity is strong, then the positive factors identified above are likely to increase: coordination and grace in the arms change, the eyes lose a certain sparkle, and the shade of the skin may become more noticeable. Iruvatim.

Psychological relationships

People with this structure of character are life-oriented, ambitious, competitive and energetic. Passivity is experienced as restlessness.

A person with a rigid character can be stubborn, but rarely malicious. Most of the time it comes down to his pride: he is afraid that he will not insist on his own, then he will look foolish, and therefore he will not stand up. This is partly due to the fear of ordering, in order to waste your will.

The term “rigid character” was adopted in bioenergetics to describe the most important factors in a number of differently labeled features. Thus, it includes the phallic, narcissistic man, whose respect is centered on potency, and the Victorian type of hysterical woman, whose character Reich described in “Character Analysis”, and how Vikorist’s view of sex as a defense against sexual sti. The old-fashioned obligatory character also belongs to this broad category.

The rigidity of his character is like steel. Rigidity is also visible in the schizoid structure, although in a frozen state its energy system is similar to ice and even screaming. Generally, people with a rigid character cope effectively with their lives.

Etiological and historical factors

The truth behind this structure is that a person of this character has not experienced major traumas that create serious stagnant conditions.

The greatest trauma here is the woman’s experience of disappointment and the desire to achieve erotic satisfaction, chiefly genital equality. This is observed in cases of child masturbation, as well as in cases of gestation due to patellia.

The child's hostility to the erotic and sexual pleasure was seen by the child as the evil of her love. Erotic sexuality, sexuality and love are synonyms in the mind of a child.

Due to its strong development, a person with a rigid character does not appear to be aware of it. As shown in the diagram, the heart is not cut out from the periphery. This is the essence of what is done with the heart, surrounded by and under its control. I would like to be in control and trust my heart.

So, as the open expression of love, as the desire for physical intimacy and erotic contentment, meets with hostile fathers, then a person with a rigid character collapses under pressure in order to achieve his goal. Vin does not manipulate like a psychopathic character, but maneuvers to achieve intimacy.

The significance of his pride lies in the fact that he is not attached to what seems to be love. Vidhilennya yogo sexual cohanna to injure yogo sensibility. In this manner, the image seems to have a wetness that is equal to the tribute to his love.

I owe only one respect to the prisoner. I am not discussing the rejoicing of these problems, because therapists rejoice not in character types, but in people. Therapy concentrates respect on people in their deepest veins: to your body, to the earth where you stand, to the people with whom you stand, and to the therapist. This is the basis of the therapeutic approach. However, in the background there is a knowledge of character, without which the therapist will not be able to understand the patient and his problem. The doctor can easily move from one area to another without losing sight of them.

· A rigid language has a very mechanical and streamant quality.

Dancing style:

· Rigid dances well, understands the rhythm, regardless of the dullness and stiffness of his legs. He is already respectful and tries not to lose the rhythm. Most often we offer dance courses. The best ones show seriousness, walk straight and seem to show off their steps in the dance. You won’t be able to say with your outward appearance: “Wonder how well I dance.”

Select car:

· Regularly wants a classic car, a working one, a vintage one - you want to get it back for your money.

Seated posture:

· Rigid to sit completely straight. In this case, you can destroy your legs and spread your whole body in a very symmetrical manner, which further strengthens your rigid posture. Sometimes he crosses his legs and arms if he doesn’t want to feel what’s going on.

Fears:

· The rigid person is most afraid of coldness. It is important for him to recognize coldness, for he who respects himself as a generous, warm person, so as to do everything so that harmony and justice are completely destroyed. As a rule, he is loyal to his friends. Although they often notice his arrogant coldness, it is not so in his eyes that he has a dry, bitter behavior, especially if he respects that he is unfairly called out for this.

Injuries based on gender:

· The trauma of injustice is experienced by his father. So the one who suffers from injustice on the side of his own status and calls them to injustice before him. If he is experiencing a situation that he respects as unfair, with a particularly protracted status, then he blames not this person, but rather himself, the injustice and incorrectness.

Treatment of injuries:

· Your injury injustice It is close to healing when you allow yourself to be less thorough, to indulge in mercy, without falling into cruelty and without criticizing yourself. You can allow yourself to show your sensitivity, you can cry in front of others, without being afraid of their judgment and without worrying about the time-consuming loss of control.

I really love Liz Burbo's books and Maria Aber's trainings! In my opinion, the author of the trainings subtly understands the essence of Bourbo’s methodology and it is accessible, reasonable for people without psychological insight, and miracles can help quickly move from theory to practice.

Rita R., Podilsk

This book literally reborn me! Just think - for three decades I have lived with these fears, with this pain in the middle and, finally, afraid of being seen in the middle, to come closer to it. I’m alive and can’t understand why I’m so unlucky. The training filled me with strength - I was able to deal with my pain, I was able to accept myself and really change my life!

Igor S., Samara

I knew from the beginning that the causes of my problems were rooted in childhood, but what’s more, no one could tell me that I would be glad to marry him. Dear Maria Aber: I was able to earn these books myself! It turned out that “nevdakha” is not a virok. It's just a mask! And it’s not so important to remove it!

Maria B., Moscow

Maria Aber's book is a wonderful reference book for those who want to learn how to interact with other people so that the experience becomes joyful and beautiful. If you want to have a lot of friends, to get along with your colleagues, to have wonderful relationships with your relatives (together with the relatives of your “other half”!) and, most importantly, with a good person, then this book is for you. It especially helps me a lot.

Sergiy B., Voronezh

I wish all the dads could read this book by Obovyazkovo Varto! In 10–20 years there would be far fewer adults who would need to deal with childhood injuries...

Anastasia B., St. Petersburg

A universal book! Business, friendship, work, money, health - no matter what the problem, you will find solutions to all nutrition!

Timur D. Kazan

Maria Aber

Peredmova

At the last moment in life, many people come to crazy thoughts: live the way you want, don’t quit.

“It’s so difficult to live the way you want,” people seem to think. - It's scary. We need to start all over again. Don't praise anyone else. My family doesn’t understand. It just doesn’t happen that way.

To be honest, there are no reasons why you shouldn’t try to control your life behind important considerations. And literally a couple of reasons “for”: for example, bazhanya buti be happy... While they are looking forward to trying this, people are becoming more and more confused, frowning, and getting sick. They look back and realize that they should take the plunge, try it, and still make money. There was no need to follow the lead of fears, formalities, stereotypes, toxic arguments with others... Ah, yakbi and yakbi!

However, this dubious story may have a good ending, and that’s why. Try to create the kind of life you want – happier, more successful, out of control, – It’s not too late.

Liz Bourbeau is the author of two dozen best-selling books, the founder of the special growth system, a testimonial coach and spiritual teacher for thousands of people in this world. In her important roles, Burbo is full of activity, energy and vigor: she travels the world through seminars and trainings, speaks at conferences, and writes articles in books. Bourbo's disciples and followers regularly conduct seminars on this system in various countries, including Russia.

At the heart of Lise Bourbeau's system was the idea that through developing a dialogue with the power body, through interaction with it, a person would become aware of, and then become aware of, their basic needs, wants and cravings.

Inhaling the robots of Alexander Lowen, Wilhelm Reich and other classics of body-oriented therapy, Burbo dedicated body, body capabilitiesі body information more than one book. However, gradually the idea about the interconnections between the mental and the physical in the interpretation of Lise Bourbo expanded to a living concept: Bourbo encouraged readers to provide serious nutrition.

For example, like this:

Why am I living?

Why am I not living the way I want?

What does it mean to “testify for your life”?

Why is it difficult for me to be intimate with those close to me?

What is behind anxiety and apathy?

How can I find out what I really want?

Lise Bourbeau encourages her followers, like-minded people and readers to get out of the “comfort zone” and provide themselves with healthy nourishment. And as a proven mentor and a reliable spiritual leader, she never throws into discord those who dare to change and change themselves. She takes them by the hand, shows them, recommends them, calms them down, makes them happy - with encouragement, reports to everyone in her efforts so that people’s desire to live happily, happily, successfully is achieved.

This training book is based on the Bourbo system (and not limited to it!), compiled by a proven practicing psychologist and allows the reader to independently (or not separately!) determine the upcoming task:

Be aware of the responsibility for your life by passing on to yourself;

Reveal, name and identify the particularities of mental trauma;

Learn how to truly love yourself;

Gain faith in your strength and peace in your heart;

Build notes with those who are more harmonious;

Know your true needs, recognize your true ones, and then begin to live with greater awareness;

Let success into your life.

The algorithm for most of these tasks, non-trivial and completely difficult, will be described in several parts of the training book. Based mainly on the ideas of Liz Bourbeau, the structure of the book has been supplemented with the mysteries of other psychological concepts, and also given special respect to practical rights that can be won one by one, at any time and at any time, And they have achieved their effectiveness. The theoretical part of the skin is accompanied by many practical rights.

"Be happy – natural camp", – right now, in every way, the books repeat, Liz Burbo repeats. Based on her evidence of the indifference of people, she brought it home: by believing in the naturalness of happiness, people can believe in themselves, and can then allow beneficial, positive changes into their lives.

Chastina persha
Allowed for life

Head of Persha
Evidence of pain: the particularities of mental trauma can be recognized and determined

It seems that childishness is the most turbo-free hour. Saying, the little person is alive, she doesn’t confirm anything, she runs and shave and doesn’t know any problems. Fools, absolutely. Childhood, perhaps, is the most complex period of life, most saturated with threats and enemies. Happy and unhappy at the same time. As dramatic as you want.

The moments of childhood that are deeply experienced, moments of happiness and sorrow remain as a legacy in life, flowing into the characteristics of people who have already grown up, on their roots, light, and mutuality with others.

Fortunately, it’s no longer a secret to anyone that the most important people for any child will ever be - dads, And the very containers with them flow into the formation of special features more, the lower containers with whatever else. The family is the cob and core of the coordinate system of any child, a point in the distance. Fathers are the main readers, “healers” and, unfortunately, “mischief makers” too. Psychological and mental traumas, without which we really cannot live in everyday life, even if our fathers suddenly (more often than not) become widowed.

So, the great caution for children and adults, independent and family people, physically healthy and not so healthy allowed Liz Bourbeau to carry out such a disclaimer: every adult person in the world goes through several stages.

The first stage is learning the joy and feeling of being yourself.

The other stage is suffering because you cannot be by yourself.

The third stage is a period of crisis, rebellion.

The fourth stage is the “development of a new feature” or, otherwise seemingly, the selection of a mask that is more consistent with the characteristics of adults.

Mask, In Burbo's opinion, he becomes a master substitute for everything today that is in a person: character, character, likeness, badness, likeness of grub likeness. The mask either fits a few inches a day (in case the injury is not serious and has only been treated frequently), or can be worn as easily as possible (in case the injury is serious, has not been treated and is still suffering). The mask is designed to protect and effectively protects us - from new injuries, from lack of strength, from pain, from insecurity...

At what price!

Even wearing a mask means not being yourself.

How can we punish the fat people?

Step by step, Burbo systematized caution and introduced the original concept of five masks as a manifestation of the five emotional traumas that people most experience.

Five injuries for Burbo can be calculated as follows:

Trauma of the abandoned (trauma is suggested by the mask of the abandoned).

Injury of a malignant person (mask of influx).

Downplayed trauma (masochist mask).

Trauma for the sake of (mask of control).

Trauma of injustice (the mask is rigid).

“There is not enough people who would not have been kicked out, abandoned, bullied, humiliated, or treated unfairly at least once. This will make you angry, angry, and boring. However, we feel that we are inclusive of the moisture. It is obvious, if he tries to convince us, that in our suffering we will call someone else. – illustrates Burbo's paradoxical thought. - There are no wines in life; Especially those who suffer.”

However, in order to accept the part that suffers, either the mask - yours or another person - Liz Bourbeau suggests that you first become familiar with all the signs and identify noticeable signs of skin trauma-mask.

It is important to understand that the skin of the five injuries described by Bourbo carries an unacceptable power. intrusiveness. Once it “hits” the soul of a person, it repeats itself and turns around, and is immediately experienced as a new traumatic revelation. Until the trauma is processed, experienced and accepted, a person inexplicably attracts situations and people in life that confirm his inadequacy, incomprehensibility, needlessness.

In a word, people traumatize themselves again and again, without any understanding.

Well, if you realize that unpleasant situations in life are repeated again and again, it doesn’t bother you rights to life , Better yet, then the time has come, decide, stop pushing, that everything is in order, and that means, what kind of trauma was inflicted on you in time immemorial, and what a bad mask, according to the classification of Liz Bourbo, is chosen by you. Only so, through awareness and pain, healing is possible. And for health - a new, happy life.

Characteristics of injury thrown, who wears a mask vtikacha

Persha traumatization: from the moment of conception to one fate.

The data is on its way father of his article, either not wanting a child, or wanting a child of a different status. Due to such global uncertainty, the leaker does not have the right to sleep.

Viraz u tili: constricted, tight, tendinous, the nibi “sagging”.

“nothing”, “nothing”, “not dreaming”, “to emerge”, “to force me out...”.

Loss of materiality. Practicing to the utmost. Focus on the spiritual, intellectual. Pragna until the end, until the end. I want to be invisible. It's important that you don't understand. Susceptibility to sweetness and alcohol, as well as to the methods of infusion.

Characteristics of injury abandoned who wears a mask fallow

Persha traumatization: between one and three rocks.

Apply Father of the disease. As a rule, an “abandoned” child suffers either from disability or from a lack of companionship with the father. The reason is the emotional detachment of the father, his physical absence, lack of interest in the child, or the lack of warm, emotional contact between the child and the father.

Viraz u tili: drawn out, thin, limp body, long arms, back twisted. Great eyes.

Favorite words and expressions:“there is no one”, “day”, “alone”, “not deprived”, “wine”, “not deprived”.

Show it to your everyday life: People who are so hard to get angry with others, it’s hard to bear separation. Prepare for a lot, you won't be left alone. What will be most needed is encouragement, positive reinforcement. Not lacking the resource of encouragement and love in oneself, he constantly searches and demands respect in others, but the inner emptiness is tireless. It’s easy for you to work and perform self-tightening. Dumb, tearful, and prone to mood swings. The greatest fear is self-ness.

Characteristics of injury humiliated who wears a mask masochist

Persha traumatization: have a period of one to three years.

Apply to the father who deals with the physical development of the child (zazvichay tse mati). As a rule, this supernaturally controlling father, which provokes a reaction in the child with a feeling of humiliation.

Viraz u tili: short, short, round-eyed.

Favorite words:“gіdny”, “ugly”, “small”, “tousty”.

Show it to your everyday life: You often get into trouble with yourself and others, and in order to clear away the rubbish, vikoryst control is also with others. He doesn’t listen to his needs, including sexual ones, although he knows them. Hypersurvival. Self-esteem is low. Subtle to the point of self-inflicted psychological punishment: “I am disgusting, disgusting, unworthy, and I cannot become good.” The greatest fear is the will.

Characteristics of injury given, who wears a mask control of that

Persha traumatization: at the period of two to four years, then under the hour of normative experience of the food complex.

Apply father of a sick person, When mothers and fathers are in a lot of trouble, as they watch out for a new child, they manipulate, impose unprofitable hopes on the child, and are suddenly writhing under the vindication of their father’s obligations. As a result, the child loses her trust until her father, and then until the world.

Viraz u tili: serviceable bracket. Get stronger, more athletic, and tighten your body.

Favorite words and expressions:“to get stronger”, “do you understand?”, “I can”, “I’ll get into it myself”, “I know that”, “I told you so”, “trust me”, “I know”, “y There’s nothing wrong with the Duma”, “I don’t trust him”, “rosirvat(sya)”.

Show in your daily life: Impatient and intolerant. Problems with trust. Curiosity follows skepticism. It seems that he is distinguished, obliging, respectful, but in fact, he is brewing great zusils in order to streamline the obedience or not to forget about the obedience. Love praise. Don’t tell lies from others, although you yourself can lie easily. The authorities will demand it, formally or informally. If the authorities are good, then he is a good commander. The greatest fear is separation, separation, and separation.

Characteristics of the survivor's trauma injustice, who wears a mask rigid

Persha traumatization: There are up to six years of age, once the child first begins to recognize and value her individuality.

Since, for various reasons, the child cannot identify individuality, lacks the skills and minds for self-expression, traumatization occurs: the child experiences injustice and develops anger, image, confusion on my dad's article.

As a rule, windows and fathers are of a superficial character. Most often, a traumatized father is affected by coldness, disrespect, and failure to establish trusting contact with the child. As a result, having experienced injustice, he strengthens himself with his emotions, gives himself the attitude “I don’t feel anything” and puts on a mask of rigidity.

Viraz u tili: well-built, well-proportioned, well-proportioned body. The gap and cracks are tense. She stands straight and proud.

Favorite words and expressions:“there are no problems”, “forever, never again”, “very good, very kind”, “so it is”, “am I right?”, “I don’t have mercy”, “exactly”, “entirely fair”, “extremely”, “ Are you fit?"

Show every day: Everything is done to the utmost and supremely powerful to oneself. He thinks not about those who are guilty, but about those who are guilty. It’s crazy to think that one should be valued not for those who are responsible, but also for the achievements of those things. It is often important that others were more fortunate than others. Contact with the authorities on a daily basis. If you don’t love, you can’t volunteer for help. Cunning to the point of doubt, equaling oneself and others. Moreover, it will play again every time. Steadily carry with you a sense of guilt, with respect, without any kind of satisfaction, joy, or praise. In emotional manifestations, he becomes flamboyant, but for others, he is most afraid of coldness.

Do you recognize your mask? How many types seem familiar to you? Not for you, but for whom of your loved ones and friends did the mask suddenly appear? Both are absolutely normal.

What makes the classification simple, proposed by Bourbo, is its universality and, at the same time, flexibility. Seeing the main characteristics of the situation manifest themselves in the same way, Liz Bourbeau constantly repeats that the same dry mask is worn by different people in different ways - there are no injuries, like a handyman, and no absolutely new manifestations of suffering. Everything is dictated by our individuality. Moreover, it often happens that a person experiences a number of mental traumas and, apparently, puts on a number of masks - one on top of another or across the other.

To accurately recognize your (or your partner’s) injury, Liz Burbo recommends a number of techniques:

Look and see main, key signs of injury, even if the injury is not too deep or severe, then everyone descriptions of symptoms may be;

Don’t be afraid to put a mask on your face, remembering that at one time the mask was indispensable in life. It is possible that I would like to allow you to live and change your suffering;

Calmly and purposefully heal mental traumas: this is the most normal and natural process of healing physical ailments and illnesses.

Of course, Liz Burbo has her own method of healing mental trauma. It is successfully used for the treatment of old, deep, poorly treated injuries and includes a number of stages - a number of procedures.

First croc– no matter how you say it, recognition of your trauma, its obvious role in your life. Otherwise, it seems that if you continue to chew, you won’t give in, and you won’t give in to anything. You will have to deal with your mental trauma, identify its “type”, and then recognize its reality (otherwise, remember, it is not a priority for your lives!).

“The people are alive to investigate those who have not been examined, and to allow those who are burdened by the burden of suffering,” says Lise Bourbeau.

Well, that's reasonable.

Another Croc before rejoicing - accept your trauma and date it, I would like a piece of crazy love. Let’s just say right away – it’s very complicated!

According to the first mad love (for Burbo, which means “to accept, because it’s not suitable and you don’t understand”) is not given “for so”, you need to feel it in yourself step by step and effortlessly. There is no single, universal, all-reasonable way to develop an insane technique, but the possibilities and techniques will be described in this book later.

In other words, the more severe the injury, the more severe the need for it. However, it is worth it to stand: the ice of your throbbing pain, your tired mask reveals that it is not to marry, but to love, the evil spell begins to fade. Converted!

Zreshta, third term The idea is to go through again all the stages of development described in the beginning of this section, only in the reverse order - from the fourth to the first. At the first stage you will have to customize your mask. On the other - to work with your support, which is obligatory and manifests itself in rebellion, stormy, obstruction of the obvious. Perhaps you will close the book in a storm (“What madder! It’s not about me!”). You may want to transfer responsibility to others (It’s all their fault!). It is possible to portray humility (“I have lived before and I will live again”). Find out the strength of your opir.

on fourth croci You will need to turn around at the moment of initial trauma: as a result of injury, get angry at your dad, hurt your little one. This stage may end with farewells to the childish anger and well-being to the fathers, forgiveness of them. Fourth Croc– this is still a turning towards one’s true self, a farewell with a mask, the rebirth of one’s real “I”, open to witness and love.

“To learn more, to find out about someone, to get along with her is not easy. It’s so complicated and so scary. Whenever a person can successfully cope with an injury, a person will deny the knowledge of the injury to himself. You never allow yourself to worry, and at the same time, you reduce the amount of anger in your soul. It is necessary to experience it and let it go, but at all times not to suppress it. In the remaining attack, you won’t go away, but will only further cripple your soul,” – I recommend Burbo.

How do you know that you are on the right path and that your injuries are slowly healing?

Liz Bourbeau confirms her injury thrown It’s close to joy when you allow yourself to take up more and more space in your life, allow yourself to simply be and find an effective way of self-assertion and self-realization.

Injury abandoned is close to healing, as self-indulgence becomes unbearable and becomes receptive, as self-reliance and resolve grow, and the need for support becomes less annoying.

Injury humiliated close to rejoicing, because control and power are weaker. If a person is ready to fight for help and then accept help, this is a good sign.

Injury for the sake of close to healing, as people calmly experience the disruption of plans, rapt separation, and good things after being deprived of unknown others.

Injury injustice It is close to healing, since people give themselves permission to attend funerals, since they have access to emotions and feelings, since crying in front of strangers no longer means getting lost.

Accepting the weakening of symptoms and the healing of mental trauma (no matter what), emotional independence, independence, and respect for one’s needs grow in people. Destroying emotional self-sufficiency, people gradually discover that what is “more important” than suffering, as well as happiness, is for oneself, for one’s friend, for one’s specialness, for one’s psyche.

Below you will find the right ways to help you deal with mental trauma on your own and to heal.

Right 1.

"Safe place"

Before Vikonanny:

Vikonannya:

Find a calm, quiet place. Use your hands more tightly. Get a few breaths and views. Close your eyes and try to see your own safe place. Under a safe place one can appreciate a place where one feels calm, happy, and unturbulent. This place may be of any size and shape. Golovne – to reveal it as clearly and realistically as possible.

Ozhe, where is the place? As soon as this is a land or another planet, come up with a name for it! What is the view of this carefree place, what is the weather like? When is it time for rock to fall? Is your safe place a place that is not just heaven? What smells do you smell? Who lives in a safe place, besides you?

You can “populate” it with everything, be it fairy tale characters. Golovne, so that the spaces, the landscape, and the climate are 100% safe, instilling joy and tranquility.

Let your imagination run wild. Reveal everything down to the details, do not let the riot come to a screeching halt, just yours It’s a safe place and no one will be allowed in there without your request. When you feel that you have had enough, step by step return to this reality. Don’t rush to repost here, die too soon. Having flattened your eyes, change your mind, see where you are. Say out loud the current date and date, your name. It’s a good idea to “ground yourself.”

After Vikonanny:

You will be able to increase in price in a safe place hour after hour, constantly inundated with new details, details, elements, people and creatures. Behind the bazaars, after the black road, you can write down those who were there, and even better - paint over them.

Once the safe place becomes familiar to you, you can try to fix your energy from the new one. Try to be respectful of positive emotions, to distinguish between “joy” and “excitement”, “happiness” and “exhilaration”... Do not block out positive emotions, even if they themselves are a resource for recovery from mental trauma.

Right 2.

"Calm breathing"

Before Vikonanny:

She has the right to master breathing with her diaphragm - simpler than it seems, breathing with her stomach, breathing is natural for humans.

Vikonannya:

Sit tighter and place your hands on your knees or armrests to lightly relax your shoulders.

1. Take a deep breath (for about 4 seconds) through the nose, straight down the abdomen.

2. Stretching the dikhannya for 1–2 seconds.

3. Breathe completely (about 4 seconds) through your mouth.

4. Wait for a few seconds, first take one more breath.

There are 6-8 cycles of breathing per plant, and that’s quite enough. If symptoms of hyperventilation appear, consider dizziness, ringing in the ears, cloudy eyes, and drink. Don't overshadow the dikhannya. Massage yourself so that your body is as relaxed as possible.

After Vikonanny:

Practice diaphragmatic breathing two days for five days. From the beginning, turn to the right if you are more or less calm. Then you can easily switch to a calm mood, and it has the right to protect you from “overwhelm” and stress.

Right 3.

"Problem"

Before Vikonanny:

To the right is aimed at reducing the significance of the problem situation and reducing it to internal peace. It is recommended to remove it even after you have decided on the type of mask you are wearing and have chosen to work with it in case of particular mental trauma.

Lisa Bourbeau affirms that it is not the traumatic event itself that matters, but yours are mutual with him. As you decide to react to trauma, your presence in life begins to change, and the mask begins to “reappear.” To the right - to help on a difficult, but sure path.

Vikonannya:

Sit tighter. Think about the problem, the situation, the character, the things that are repeated, the ones that don’t bother you, the things that are unacceptable to you, whatever hurts you. Formulate the essence of the problem in two or three words.

Then guess with whom you recently discussed this problem. Guess the situation, break the roses, the situation, denouncing the people. If you want to discuss your problems with yourself, imagine the situation in which you thought about your unacceptability. Where did it happen - on the street, at work, at the car? What happened last night? Who was the fleeting testimony of your difficult thoughts?

Try to keep your distance from your situation and be careful. Tell your loved ones, acquaintances, relatives, friends. What kind of problems, troubles, inconsistencies loom? How is your problem similar to the problems of people you know? Think about it.

In a world of readiness, expand your range of fantasies. Guess what problems your team, your city, your country have? What is there to say about all the unpleasant and joyful situations? What are the joys and sums of life (yours and yours)? Don't rush. Try to enjoy the process.

Then you will realize that you will marvel at a special microscope, in which you can see literally everything - the entire Earth, the Sonya system, the Galaxy... What is unacceptable

at Cosmos? What is turbulent on planet Earth? What are the emotions in the Galaxy? Fantasize!

And then - turn your thoughts back to your initial problem. Formulate the firebrand one more time. What should you do now after thinking about it? How serious does she seem to you?

After Vikonanny:

As a rule, after the Wicon has the right to reformulate the essence of the problem, and the wealth of life’s inconveniences subsides, the stench no longer appears so overwhelming, fatal, that it signifies the course of life.

Right 4.

"Images - WON"

Before Vikonanny:

This awkward right allows a few calmer things to be done before they hurt, and until those who cause pain.

Vikonannya:

Close your eyes and concentrate on breathing. Apply yourself with the diaphragm.

Clench your fists and realize that you are holding your image in your hands. Strain your hands. Feel the tension in your fists, muscles, shoulders, throughout your whole body... and then sharply open your fist, relax your muscles, relax your whole body, exposing yourself. It's noisy to see. Let the images go. Find out that the stench is falling on the foundation, kitten and know. Or they disintegrate into fragments, scatter, and there are no more of them.

After Vikonanny:

Vitaemo. Your image has disappeared.

Just out of the blue at the bookstore, my hand reached out to Liz Burbo’s book “5 Traumas to Respect Yourself.” Having bought this book, I read it in 2 days and realized that it didn’t fall into my hands at all casually, it’s just that the time has come to deal with my childhood trauma, which is pouring into my adult life. As strange as it sounds, reading this book, it seemed to me that the author knew even better than me, as well as my loved ones and known people. Since you are stuck, and you don’t have time to read a book, then I wrote this article for you.

Start, perhaps, because the skin of a person suffers a trauma, and maybe more than one, as she was robbed in childhood by her mother and father, and the person who snatched him. This trauma forces us to wear a mask in life in order not to experience pain, joy and humiliation again. The fear of being abandoned and seized again tempts us to achieve a consistent pattern of behavior, so that no one will ever guess about our suffering, let alone ourselves. As a result of extensive practice, Lise Burbo has identified 5 traumas that influence our lives, masks that we are unaware of when treating children’s wounds.

5 traumas that make life worth living:

1. Trauma - thrown out

A person who has accepted this trauma does not feel the right to sleep in this world. It may be an unborn child, who nevertheless came into the world, or it may be a child, who was thrown away by her father from the moment of marriage until one fate. Such a person from childhood puts on the “Vtikach” mask, so he cannot flow in, disappear, evaporate and not take up such a rich place. For this reason, before speaking, he looks even thinner, even thinner, because the body reacts under the influence of the diet. In the eyes of the inflower, you will soon feel fear, you won’t even feel like it in yourself, in great companies you won’t feel anything like that, you will always wait and try to find yourself as soon as possible and settle down in such a comfortable state of being. Another characteristic feature of the influx is the attention to detail in everything that you want to work, to work perfectly, or not to begin to work forever. In this way, you can be realized and realize to yourself why you love him. People who suffer from the injury of a thrown person often have problems with the skin, since it itself is a contact organ with too much light, the problem skin begins to adapt to itself with the external light and so on with his look: “Don’t bother me.” Also, such people suffer more from diarrhea, while they themselves suffer from the trauma of being thrown out, and they throw up a stink of food that has not had time to digest. For this reason, they can often vomit. Actions flow out of reality with additional alcohol, which helps them quickly subside and stop feeling the pain that they are experiencing.

1. Trauma - abandonment

There are 5 injuries that affect life - abandonment. The person, who carried this trauma, rejected her through her father’s sickness, as long as she did not give her proper respect, did not show her passion and love. The one who suffers from the trauma of being abandoned, senses a constant emotional hunger and strives to “become attached” to another person in order to satisfy this hunger. The mask that we’re about to leave behind is “Zalezhny.” Because of the assertion that I cannot achieve anything on my own, without the support of other people, I simply need words of praise for the sake of which I then, before speech, do not follow. For this reason, I entrust the mother to a man who can fight, because he is not able to sing in his own strength. The status of the stale body is consistent with injury: a thin, long body, which is susceptible to under-deterioration of the flesh. From the side it seems that the meat system does not involve your body and people, so as not to fall in, it is simply necessary to talk about someone. This is how it goes in life. Knowing emotional hunger, the layman tries to find someone he wants to lay hold of. In this case, you are not able to control your emotions: you get embarrassed through a fight, cry easily, and you can laugh again when you say something wrong. Such specialism is even more incredulous, it is good to exaggerate and dramatize everything, to “make a molehill out of a molehill” - that’s all about it. The most important person in the world is afraid of self-esteem, and even then there is no one to give up respect, encouragement and help. A person who suffers from the trauma of being abandoned often speaks with a childish timbre, likes to give plenty of food and forcefully accepts the witch, so that when she feels abandoned. The greatest prevalence of illness is characteristic of this injury - asthma, short-sightedness, migraines and depression.

1. Trauma - belittling

A humiliated child recognizes the image, criticism, and condemnation from a very early age, but most often the trauma of the humiliated child manifests itself as everything the child feels from the mother in the period from 1 to 3 years. Whenever a mother calls a child, she hates to see a fault as rubbish, then she accepts it as a humiliation from her forehead, especially when Rozmova appears in front of strangers. Such a child in the future puts on the mask of a “Masochist”. This means that people always live with their own problems, belittling and different situations in which there is a possibility of suffering. Having experienced humiliation from childhood, not having felt a kind word, he does not respect any other task to tell himself. The fragments of the sound will soon be disturbed, the body will listen to its knowledge and grow in its duties. The masochist takes up a lot of space in the world and in the lives of other people. He tries to help everyone, solve problems for them, give advice and instructions. Such a person appears to be kind because they voluntarily take part in the problems of other people, but in reality such behavior is motivated by the fear of others and themselves. You are ready to earn everything, so that you are no longer criticized and praised, you will find! A masochist is oversensitive, the least likely to hurt and harm other people. A person with the trauma of humiliation often suffers from a bad back, which puts an unbearable burden on his shoulders - responsibility for the lives of other people, as well as the illness of crazy people, if he is suffocated by other people's problems, thyroid congestion Because it is important for you to know your needs and express your vimog.

1. Trauma - pain

This trauma is experienced by a child from 2 to 4 years of age due to the paternal condition. The child understands that her father will heal every time, if he does not follow his word, by the will of someone else, not someone else, or if he is evil to the trusting child. In this situation, the child, in order to avoid injury, wears the “Control” mask. The body develops completely up to the point of the mask, and it develops strength and strength, showing in its entirety that the ruler is a reliable person and can be trusted. Such a person is in love with her strength, she wants to love first and foremost, she wants to control others. He is as capable of others as he is of himself and is often frustrated by the fact that he cannot trust anything and has to do everything himself. In his actions, the one who is in control loves speed, he will fight even harder if he wants to give his right to the fullest. Often such a person becomes aggressive when the situation gets out of control. He is trying to get everything over and over again in order to get rid of one more thing for the sake of his life. He rarely listens to others and works in a way that respects their needs, but also ensures that they clearly follow his recommendations. People who suffer from mental injury most often suffer from problems with the herbal system, agrophobia, ailments and sicknesses, which end in –it.

1. Trauma is injustice

The child rejects this injury head-on from the father of her life in three to five years. Zahisna mask - "Rigidness". In the spirit of fairness and thoroughness, it is important for us to understand that those who treat others may be unfair to others, and as a result, those who harm others may appear unfair only to others. he is suffering from this type of injury. The status of the rigid is thorough and proportional, and even fair... Such a person is very practical, they have always been valued for their achievements and successes, and not just like that. Although he is often adept at conflicts, Oskolki Vina is a passionate fighter for justice. The greatest fear for a person is the fear of showing mercy, even if he may inflict injustice on others, and what he is trying to do will not be allowed. Unfortunately, it is often seen as the blessings of life, because it respects what is unfair for others and to hurt others, because it respects that it doesn’t hurt anyone. Such a constant struggle results in nervous fatigue, constipation, loss of vision and sleeplessness.

The first step before treatment is 5 injuries that matter in life – with this knowledge, acceptance and then working with them. Before speaking, there is no need to call everyone on their fathers, even as Lise Bourbeau wrote in her book, souls already knew in advance what traumas in life they needed to overcome in order to resolve their karma and simply rob their fathers, as They will be provided with the necessary washing facilities. The responsibility for your life always lies with you, and other people and situations are a reflection of your inner decision to experience the singing lessons.

For more detailed information, you can read the book by Liz Bourbeau, “Five Traumas to Respect Yourself,” and I am confident that you will be able to heal your life.

With love, Yulia Kravchenko

If you were confused about nutrition when reading the article, you can put it on me. I am pleased with you!