Beating a man. Why bother when a man has a squad and a child? It is important to know where to go and what to do, as a person has a squad.
If a man has a squad, that means... He deserves it? Is he a wretch? There's a family on the right, you can figure it out yourself? It’s not surprising that in our marriage, which long ago became part of Domostroy, there is no single view on this problem. Tim is more likely to marvel at her when he calls, with the cold gaze of an outside guard. Here you can talk a lot about the role of man and woman in the family, the nuances of marriage, the importance of how each person and friend bears responsibility for their developments. How will you find yourself in the very epicenter? Especially when it comes to victims?
Often, under the guise of a friendly family, there is an alliance between the victim and the tyrantWhoever has a squad, God gives him?
The people who clearly understood that when they raise their hand to a woman, they stink, seeming softly, wrong, negligibly small. Every domestic aggressor will find a way to justify his problem. One does not doubt that the lady herself brought it to him: she did not greet, as it were, after an important day of work; not at once she put her hand in hand with the documents; she chirped sweetly with the neighbor at the exit door - in a melodious way, not without reason, the trash.
Others regard beatings as the most compelling argument for any super person. The third one broadly advocates the principle “Love your squad like a soul, love your cowards like a pear,” which is how you yourself continue to solidify your position as the head of the family.
Before the speech, more than our ancestors shone with such pearls. It is necessary to explain how, with the help of Kurkuls, you will have a good hundred days with your squad, all the time in the language of other peoples. “Beat your squad, you don’t know why,” they said in Africa. “Without a club there will be no righteous squad,” they said in China. In India, a woman's head was matched with a drop of flower in a cart: mowing until you hit it like a trace will do no good. In good old England they beat the squad as often as they beat the gong. And the Arabic saying says that people who are not allowed to kill a soldier and beat up their squad if they are guilty, and life is not good.
Is there no need to convey one’s ability and authority to people through beatings - the invisible figure of representatives of a strong state, what is the position between the hours and between?
Violence against a woman has been the norm in the past. And what about now? Psychology of the aggressor and the reasons for his behavior
Of course, traditions impose biases on people’s behavior. If these orders have already been issued for more than a decade, why do people continue to diligently follow them, unfortunately, not at all wise orders? What a mess! According to statistics, in our country today 36,000 women recognize violence at the hands of a man or a spy - and only according to official data. And the chance of dying in the hands of a vicious bastard in the courtyard of most representatives of excellent status is very low, less than beaten in the dirty kitchen of everyday welding. Why does it bother “strong and manly” people to regularly raise their hand to their other half?
And for some, scandals and beatings are less than a love prelude For the best circumstances, for the reasons we cannot provide for the domestic tyrant. Believe me, it’s entirely possible to control your ferocity. Since the aggressor does not throw his fists at the quarrelsome boss, he is afraid of being confronted by a two-meter batog, which, having pushed him out of the way, the inspector’s audible examination is at a high level, but he cannot stream his angry alone with a hopeless woman, well, he simply doesn’t care about the needs robiti tse. What's the matter? Yogo controls everything. You are kind, friendly, welcoming. And there is no reason to change your line of behavior. Sometimes such people relish so much that they are not affected by the presence of children - the call to give free rein to your hands appears to be a strong voice for the mind.
Children on the Line of Fire
Before we talk about children. Women, who are constantly trying to save the union with the beshketnik, “so that the child has a father,” must remember: under the hot hand of the aggressor, the youngest, weakest members of the family are often crushed.
There are no everyday guarantees that the father’s bitter wrath, which has risen, will not fall on the child, especially if a little one appears at the welding splinter, rushes to steal the material, or otherwise manifests disobedience. And it’s not good to be afraid that after the crack that was caused in the fuse, grief will come to you, repent and become streamlined. Don’t forget, you’ve already begun to give yourself free rein within your own walls and have learned to achieve courage—something that respects everything—from friendship through physical violence. What should an aggressor do if he tries out a method of treating children? Chantly, not high moral principles. Not even talking about those who virtuously psychically harm a happy child in the daytime, it is absolutely impossible to sound like a husky and the sounds of blows.
There is normal growth there, where cruelty and tears are panicked, but we can’t Dry statistics. Close to 50,000 children in our country are quickly fleeing home, fearing beatings from one of their fathers. Nearly 2000 people are likely to commit suicide for the same reason. A terrible number of young murderers are wasted in the colony for killing their fathers - out of self-defense and trying to escape from the savage beatings of their mother. So the patience of the beaten squads is legendary, as they save their family by hook or by crook; this is no longer mercy, but rather evil. More precisely, two: first - against yourself, and the other - against your child.
How to resist domestic violence
A woman who once experienced the full burden of the wrath of her brother, either an official man or a traveler, has two options: to lose and try to renew the tires that have cracked, or to leave.
Living on a volcano
The first mistake rarely arrives like thunder from a clear sky. It does not happen that yesterday the loving and smiling man of today, mute behind the wave of a charming wand, transformed into a miracle with a fierce grin and menacingly raised fists. Once you analyze the situation, you will immediately understand that having endured a long period of attention, it is a matter of respect, and thus the image has been sent to the friend’s address. As time goes on, the first lower tyrant will move from left to right, and most women will close their eyes to the aggression of the Kokhan, who is growing, trying with all their might to find his justification. "I'm tired." "Someone's got a problem." “It’s my fault, did you finally crawl with this bag from the dry cleaning while it was time for football?”
A lot of squads are driving themselves into hell So, tired. So, sometimes we see everything. So, I need your turbo, patience and wisdom. But it does not convey rudeness or rudeness. One on the right - throws out in dismay: “Dear, will you calmly watch TV today?!” And something completely different: - “Go away, cow!” The squad, which is content to bear the moral “stuns”, will soon realize the real ones. That violence needs to be dealt with right from the start. Show your respects to yourself. This is due to the fact that you are “deprived” of a housewife, and your husband is spinning over-profit projects on the job and is endlessly tired, not yet putting him on the table for you. Family is a union of equals, and nothing else. You brought a team into your home, and not a robot to relieve stress, right?
First blow
Well, that’s what happened. It’s too early to grab your hand and write a request for separation, otherwise you need to work hard to clarify the situation.
Before us, calm down. Emotions have not yet brought anything good to anyone. Take a walk, breathe in the fresh air, drink valerian or whatever, and then analyze the situation. Look at every detail and try to understand what happened? Is the man drunk or sober? Why did you get angry at what you did, why do you marvel at the right of your own hands? Why didn’t you provoke him, in the heat of the squabble, he gushed about the noble father and painfully impressed his humanity? Of course, there is no need to justify this: any person will forever be deprived of the ability to loudly rattle the door, having first sent his squad to work and not at all decently, and give himself an hour to cool off. Ale can serve as a pompous furniture.
Think about it, why don’t you often rain down hail on your noble one? After everything is good, you will calm down and calm down, just as you were. Do you want to teach a man who stumbled? Farewell. Ale, don't do it.
Talk to the man and give him a precise ultimatum: one more blow, a blunder, a blunder - and you will safely leave him. Please note that the threat will need to be eliminated. Having knocked out the aggressor and wiped it off, you will show him that all your minds do not cook the eggs you see.
Be quick about your behavior. Be even more affectionate and generous, do not spoil compliments for a man, pamper him with delicious herbs. Perhaps, given the truth of this important period in a person’s life, some wine can only be paid for your support. However, remember that such problems themselves do not arise. You are to blame for bleeding on the side of your head.
Since the family is truly fiery in nature, I assure you that a family psychologist will come to help. Well, again, the decision about the hike until the new one may be exhausting.
Of course, you can forgive only those who themselves have repented and tried to make amends for their offense to you. Since those who have been raped do not surrender to the squad as uninvited, you are not in the mood for human beings.
Our ancestors knew the call for any emergency Our ancestors, whose little ones have more than once suffered from the Soviet massacre, have little way of turning to this world. For example, it was important that a woman who called a man “dear” 40 times on the day of the Annunciation would live with him for the entire time. As soon as they needed a tough approach, the beaten squad bought a new hammer and said over it: “As an important hammer does not rise, so that the servant of God would have such an important language, without lifting or barking.” Be my words precious and molded from now on and forever. Amen." You can also quickly do the old-fashioned trick, or else in an additional way. Relying on the help of greater forces, without skimping on every effort to improve the situation, is still not a good idea.
Bizhi, Lola, bizhi
You were gentle and patient, you felt the warmth of your soul, you quickly tried to forget the outburst, if you were so humiliated, and from you you are removing new portions of the image and cracks? It’s a pity, to continue in the same spirit, believing that once you try to appreciate your sacrifice, it makes no sense. As if it doesn’t make sense...neventeenth, smearing the blood and tears on your cheeks, hearing the chant that “it won’t happen again.” Repeat. You have tied up your life with people, for whom assault is not a solitary screaming attack, but a meaningful way of relaxation, and you have already savored it. Think about it, does your lover really want to cover it with blue foundation before going out on the street? Ledve. How often does it compensate for “tiredness in children and fathers”, stress, how to get rid of the stench, hanging around in the same cabin with the aggressor? Ledve. In addition, do not forget that such people sometimes become too harsh, and sometimes lose all control over themselves, so that as a result you may have to pay for your patience to the living.
Fight for your happiness, do not give in to the mercy of the aggressor! If it is not possible to change the situation, without any regret, choose your words and go. Once and for all. Navigating between the father's booth and the big man's booth is hopeless on the right. It’s better to spend an hour and effort searching for your new half. That's why we remember to shake our fists in the guts.
The tyrant, Who is often intoxicated with gusto, does not dare to let his victim go so easily. There is blackmail with children, suicide, threats of physical violence... How about?
First of all, please know that you are solely responsible for your life and the lives of your children. The young people have grown up - not your turbo. There are too many people telling the squads that they will kill themselves in case of separation, but very few people are actively going to earn it. Think for yourself, since you are so dear to him, why doesn’t the noble one work hard to force you to beat you on the spot? Why does it matter that you sacrifice your peace of mind and health, even though it is your fault that you will not inflict an elementary abuse on yourself? Is it not the one who is truly guilty of loving more than himself, but does he need you as a cook, a servant and a slave for the battle in one person?
If you are afraid that a person will force you to lose your money, consider the idea of a demonstrative glance. Quietly and carefully prepare your routes before entering.
It’s just not worth it, while waiting for the joys and wishes of decisive women from social media, take the frying pan ahead of time and try to restore justice on your own. First of all, you ask, why won’t this frying pan be torn from your hands and fall on your head? In other words, how exactly can you determine the power of a blow? The article of “excess of necessary self-defense” is no longer acceptable, especially since the colossal shaking after a fight with a common object appears not in intensive care, but in the cold.
Video: How to live with a person who raises his hand against you?
Beating the weak - a woman, a child, a creature - is the share of scoundrels and cowards. There are only two situations in which a kohanoma can practice placing under the eye of a blue fish with a light heart: this did not happen by accident (showing a friend the size of a caught pike and not opening the swing of his arm) or you are passionate about fighting mysteries You and regularly ask the person to join you in training. The decision is unacceptable and requires negative actions from the witness, even to the extreme. Don’t wait, if the situation is out of control, take action to correct it or leave. There is no third option.
Do you want to decide to take care of yourself?
We hope that our methods, described in this article, will help you avoid violence in this family.
Notes from a client:“My man is beating me. After my beatings, the blue on my body will be lost.
I have to cover them with clothes and use additional cosmetics so that no one
without getting too excited.
It’s most scary that my father is supposed to teach my son before his mother.
everything appears before his eyes.
I no longer have the strength to endure the man’s beatings. Of course, it seems that
So in the future we won’t work – and after a dozen hours I won’t call again.
I still believed that it was no longer my fault to be bothered.”
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In a situation where a woman recognizes violence in the family, she needs to make an important choice: continue to endure the pressure on herself or change her life.
We model behavior
What the woman said break up with someone , Whichever it is, she definitely needs to immediately understand the reasons for her behavior with her family. Otherwise, it is likely that similar situations will be repeated another time, with a different person.
Even the woman did not understand why the man was beating. Why are you worried about her? Why did she allow herself to be treated like this?
She herself allowed...
If she had pinned a similar position on the cob itself, if the man had hit her first, she would not have suffered from the beatings that are periodically repeated.
If a person does not change, if he does not force you to beat you, you will go.
In both the first and the other versions of the development, both people and friends need to understand the reasons for violence in the family and how to avoid it.
Our behavior in life and at home is inspired by spirituality.
From our very childhood we take the butt from our fathers. So, we know that it’s never right to stop the stink. But we have no other choice but to unknowingly inherit their butt. We are aware of the current behavior patterns in the family.
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Our statements about this are shaped by the agreement between our fathers.
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It’s not your fault that you do it the same way, just like your fathers did! It’s just that you didn’t learn any other butt than Father’s in childhood.
Ale now you have already grown up. And you can take care of your family yourself - as you please.
Why is your boyfriend so interested in approaching you, why would he kill you? To know the cause of your nutrition, it is first necessary to determine the cause of your aggressive behavior. And having identified the reason, we find out how to change.
Why does a man raise his hand to his squad?
Well, we understood that the fostering atmosphere of the father’s family influences the development of the child’s characteristics. The stench is associated with the choice of your life's path, behavior, looks, behavior.
It’s good if the child grows up in a psychologically healthy family, then people make fun of her, respect her, respect her thoughts and help her become a valuable person. All this family has carnage. And their climate has always been favorable for the development of young individuals.
The aggression of a person and his cruel behavior of one hundred percent of his friends often correspond to the roots of childhood, of the father’s family. Most importantly, he was often portrayed as a child: beaten, mocked, belittled. As a result, there is a virus in a man who is unconscious of himself, who now asserts himself by showing his physical strength over a weak person - a squad.
Sometimes a person’s self-esteem does not suffer, but his information already includes the behavior of his father in relation to his mother, at that moment, when she beat her.
Every person automatically replicates this very pattern of behavior – even in his family.
How can people overcome negative underlying attitudes and stereotypes?
First of all, understand that your behavior is the demise of your father.
In a different way, understand that this is not correct.
Thirdly, firmly believe that you want to change.
People need to learn to adopt a different behavioral model.
Why does a woman recognize violence in the family?
A woman who has fought for everything, still carries with her an unrecognized child’s trauma. It is possible that her father and mother, who was another member of the family, grew up with her during her childhood. Vaughn – sacrifice for one's nature.
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Until the woman learns this fact, until she understands her behavior and her
over and over, until you learn to love yourself and be loved, - again and again
give in to violence in the family.
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Be aware that your problems come from your childhood, that you behave the same way as your mother’s father did in your childhood. Ale then you were small and dry. And now you are a grown woman, who herself has the right to decide how she should live!
Engage in, for example, this type of activity that has long attracted you. So you feel more ecstatic and happy. This is the day of all the best! Remember this.
Understanding the causes and legacy of violence in this family is very important! You will understand that next time you can bend the chains of welding and seriously suffer or, God forbid, the outbreak of aggression will lead to fatal consequences.
Besides, you are not the only one suffering, your children are also suffering. The stench is not behind the heavy bouquets of your evidence with the man of welding.
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Think: how can your children have a happy family in the future?
What other butt, besides the need for the object of one’s work, does not know the stench?!..
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Your children, like you in childhood, are unaware of the decline in the behavior of their fathers. You want to transfer your behavior model to your future homeland - just like you do.
Htos may rosirvati tse vicious colo. You yourself have the power to change the situation for the better and have a warm day with your partner! Be aware of the whole problem. Get ready before the change.
Of course, you will need to change your time and patience, and get help from a psychologist.
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Important!
Tell yourself: if a person doesn’t want or can’t change, you will go with someone else.
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How do people learn to control their aggression?
Most often, a person protects his squad, because there is no other way to get rid of aggression. Aggression accumulates in the new one and grows during the welding hour. You need to learn to keruvati with your senses.
Here are two simple ways to help a person turn away from aggression:
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A person can learn to express his emotions in words rather than in actions. The simple phrase “I’m angry with you” is effective for a fist.
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A person can directly direct aggression in a lesser direction - sport, physical rights and vantage.
In the first option, the person expresses his emotions and thereby moves away from them. Even aggression is the accumulation of negative emotions and their disintegration, when a person can no longer absorb them.
In another type, a person gives a seemingly inexpensive way out through physical work or sports.
How do women behave?
The drains have the following pattern: If you change, other members of the family change. That's a fact. Before you change, you and people need to be informed that changes in life are necessary for you, for your homeland.
You, as a team, need to encourage a person from the very beginning, if he wants to change for the better.
Praise him for his success, encourage him with words. Show with your actions and behavior that you are with him, that you share his intention to change.
Think about it, would you be pleased if they were telling you all the time about those things that are bad and bad? However, you need to understand the behavior of a person who will achieve success in his life until the last change.
How do you deal with children?
Children, who have repeatedly learned that their father is their mother, feel hatred for their father - they are afraid of the stench and do not respect their father.
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Children, when they are growing up, will respond to brute physical strength with the same strength
And these very installations don’t care about people.
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What do you want? Do you want your children to disrespect and hate you?
If you wanted to live in a different way and have a happy birthday in your homeland, immediately gain a new trust and respect among your children. With your actions, words, you are responsible for those close to you and your children.
It’s not the children’s fault to be afraid of you, the children are trying to fool you!
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Do you hope that violence will happen in your family once and again? Start your activities now. Now you know a little more about methods for keeping your family calm, and you can put them into practice.
Remember: domestic violence can be stopped!
Change! Happy days!
Beatings are one of the most widespread manifestations of domestic tyranny. Unfortunately, the famous proverb about the expression of love and sweetness in the way of beating a legitimate friend is not always true, and such a manifestation can cause real ill health to all members of the family.
Many wives will not hesitate to pay attention to their mothers with their family, which would endanger not only themselves, but also their children. What to do, if a man is a squad and a child - we will learn about this from this article.
○ Damn man... Why bother?
As I have already said more than once (div. and article), not all cases of pain can be classified as beatings.
The Criminal Code conveys a number of crimes associated with harm to health - here there are beatings, assault, sexual assault and others.
So, if your boyfriend allows himself assault, constant pain and suffering, a possible next course of action is:
1) The police call - law enforcement officers will need to write a statement about your injury, describe all the circumstances of the assault, and the appropriate methods for reporting the injury, objects that were used for the strikes. The application will be the basis for a forensic medical examination on the subject.
2) Since there is no possibility of getting to the police in a short time, I recommend taking a medical bond and record the beating of a man. Go to the local clinic, trauma hospital, or just to the nearest emergency room. The doctor, in case of any emergency, will give you the kind of necessary document - evidence of the nature of all injuries, the nature of their infliction, and so on. provide a guarantee of recording the beatings and allow the forensic medical expert to provide information necessary for criminal investigations.
3) After getting rid of evidence of a beating, I recommend contacting the police, since law enforcement officers did not contact you before, immediately after the incident. The order of the subsequent actions was voiced by me above all - a written statement from the report of the current circumstances of the battle. In this case, the basis for conducting a forensic medical examination will be evidence of beatings, seen before.
It is necessary to heal, so beatings – this is the evil of private calling. In other words, the police do not carry out examinations or verifications without your application. Only brutality before the police can cause punishment for the wine.
○ Like a man beats a child...
If a child has become a victim of beatings, there is no need to be afraid to leave the house. Pobittya ditini is a wicked person who is not guilty of being deprived of karma.
The procedure here will be similar - the first thing you need to do is call the police. It’s incredibly important to immediately protect the child from further violent acts, try to reveal it to the neighbors, in an isolation room, or in any other safe place.
If you believe that the child is sick and injured and is not surrounded by simple sins and sadness, be sure to call out to the Swede for help. This prevents serious injuries from occurring. Swedish doctors will organize and remove assistance.
It should be noted that crimes committed against minors, including beatings, rise to the evils of public outrage, so that the victim’s application will not be needed here, a further verification will be carried out on the basis of medical documents about the treatment of the health of the child.
Punishment for such an act will also be completed - the investigation obtains a qualified warehouse from the beaten children, which transfers harsh sanctions.
○ How can the law punish a person for beatings?
Punishment for beatings is stipulated in Article 116 of the Code of the Russian Federation, whereby any perpetrator may be subject to punishment, both in the form of a fine, obligatory and civil service, and in the form of real loss of liberty. The severity of punishment depends on the situation, including the likelihood of relapse, the severity of the illness, and the appearance of a sign of a qualified warehouse. The decision about punishment will forever be praised by the court.
In order to punish someone who raised his hand against his family, it is absolutely necessary to go to the police. It’s absolutely incredible that I would have been punished as a result of my lesson.
The order of action for each beating was indicated more clearly by me. If anyone has a breakdown, they have a trace. The evildoer can only be punished if he has the required documents in his hands.
Obviously, make sure that the child became the victim of a beating, this fact will be the basis for. By abolishing such rights, my father does not have the right to take the fate of the fostered child, to become friends with her, and he will not be able to extract alimony for his family in the face of poor old age and misfortune.
Often, women have nutritional problems that need to be addressed when a man constantly portrays and belittles, for the sake of a psychologist in this situation to help resolve the problem. With a friendly woman, you want to be a kohana, create a quiet time in the hut, give birth to and take care of children. Ale is caught in such a way that just yesterday a person today appears as a monster, from whose lips a husky steadily flutters.
The squad feels humiliated, tries to recognize you in themselves, pushes them away, makes them more friendly, but doesn’t do the right thing. Humiliation and image continue to sipatisya from yogo vust, often the situation reaches the point of assault.
Even if the children are growing up, the person is still shaking. What should we do in such a situation, forgive and forgive, until our sins fade and change, pick up our speeches and take away our innocence?
Kohannya without guarantees on the side of a man belittles and depicts a woman.
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Reasons why a person belittles his squad
There are many reasons for constantly lowering the image, and a different approach is required to enhance them.The axis of the main reasons why a person can depict and belittle his squad:
- The warmth has almost passed before the squad in New Year If love requires encouragement, it itself seems to gradually begin, and a moment of cooling comes for any couple. During this period, the stains will become noticeable, the smell will renew, and you will have to do both. If for any of them this stage means nothing, problems are not far off.
- The man started the fire. In this situation, it is more important for you to belittle and portray your squad, so that they are the first to leave the taxes for separation. So the man untangles his hands and creates a territory for new hundred-year-olds who are already buried in their heads.
- The man no longer cares about his friends. There are several reasons, one of which is the maternity leave of the squad. During this period, many women do not take care of themselves, they are only occupied with children and do not have the human respect that they deserve. Yogo’s squad is no longer fighting.
- A person’s self-esteem is very low, in this manner she raises the woman, lowering her.
- The woman herself is put before the man, it doesn’t matter, is in total control of him, constantly asking where and where he goes when he’s at home, rummaging through his phone, rummaging about his speeches, squirming about his guts.
- The woman is afraid to force the situation even more, so she is afraid to tolerate the man’s unnecessary behavior. Among the main reasons: there is no place for it to go or it is heavily deposited materially.
The psychologist’s pleasure is simple: if something like this happened first, then you need to calmly ask the person not to talk to her in that tone anymore, otherwise the “conversation” will end up being stabbed. control yourself, there is no need to react to your behavior .
You can say people about feelings, about kohanna, about those that such words hurt the soul and are even unacceptable. Find out what can be changed, change yourself, and then, if there is a problem, you need to voice it tactfully, find a way out at once.
It happens that a person does not dare to respond promptly to the words of his friend, to change nothing in himself, then for a woman it is tempting to think about whether she herself needs such hundred-hundreds of hundreds of thousands of radicals. , she’s ready to live.
If food is so expensive, you have to work, as a person constantly depicts and degrades, then there can be temporary or constant separation - separation.
What kind of person looks a little less like an image, what is more beautiful then?
If a man consistently calls his wife in figurative words, he comes to her from the drive, this does not mean that she is rotten and he is trying to correct her.The reason may be unknown at once, but the woman will not change the way I want. The couple have been friends since day one, but the friendship has not become any worse, the children are still talking about them. There is a reason for such a situation to bother the person himself.
You may be dissatisfied with yourself, your career, your salary, or you may not like the team. If you don’t want to figure out the reason for yourself, you don’t want to correct the situation, it’s much easier to go home with friends. The squad can point out people’s mistakes, misfortunes, otherwise they don’t know a way out, they can make the situation stronger, they can become more angry.
You can earn two rewards:
- Get in and leave.
- Wait, until you find out the reason on your own. However, in this situation, you can spend a long time to no avail.
As long as we can belittle the squad in front of outsiders, in front of children, the situation will not get any better. I can easily deal with powerful psychological problems myself. You will have to either endure or embrace radical approaches in order to go beyond something new.
People want to feel superiority over the victim, so as not to blame it, in the future they may no longer be able to know their name, but call it like this, and always figuratively. If you try to change the situation in which case a person does not bother to answer, there is no need to call him, he will not change.
Why bother, what kind of person is there?
When a man raises his hand, who is a bad man or a good man? Many women think about what true love is all about. If this is a problem, and the person is constantly belittling, portraying the same squad as children, then what should we do? The problem is that a person of this type does not perceive the necessary pangs of conscience.
She respects that she herself is guilty, she brought it. It's an important day at work, and there you go. Or I had a nice conversation with my husband, take it off! There's no need to flirt.
Some people regard beatings as the last argument to “conquer” the squad that they are acting incorrectly in their opinion. You can get used to everything, tell you that it’s not so close to the threshold. Unfortunately, such behavior of people has been proven for centuries, but today it is the love of equal people, and not of one another!
Isn’t it true that human authority is earned through beatings, and what is the value of human assistance? Alcohol is often the cause of violent behavior, it triggers aggression, there are no motives for it. You need to think about why you want to continue living with an alcoholic? The solution is obvious.
The person suffers from an inferiority complex, his career is at zero, he has no achievements, no position in marriage, no good salary. Lyudina, who has not achieved success anywhere, wants to feel like a ruler at home. If the squad wants to show independence, they will be severely punished, especially if they have quarry charges and have income that exceeds the person’s earnings.
There is no need to joke about reasons for beating people; they can come to any end. And she often raises her hand to children, crippling them morally and physically. According to statistics, tens of thousands (close to 50,000) children are fleeing home sadly, fighting against their father’s beatings and suffering.
Approximately 2,000 children are quickly trying to put their hands on themselves. A large number of children are sent to a juvenile colony for killing their father, due to the violent behavior of which they fought their mothers and fought themselves. And saving such money for a woman is already a harm against powerful children.
When a woman confronts her family’s humiliation, psychologists say definitely for the sake of:
- To think that a person will immediately come to his senses is foolish - he will not change.
- There is no need to show affection, turbot and love in response to lowly words; the positive result of such behavior should not be ignored.
- There’s no need to pretend to the truth, it’s a bad tactic.
- There’s no need to satisfy a man’s fancy without a baggage.
- It’s impossible to get a grown man to move without a strong head.
- It’s impossible to think that such mutual relations are the norm with her, but it’s not so.
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The people, who at least once crossed the line, crossed it again and again, as it was first under the influence of alcohol, and so it will be again and again, if there is a hard way. It is possible, not immediately, lest the situation repeat itself again. Everyday troubles can serve as a catalyst for an outburst of emotions, and love moves to another plane.If the woman is already complaining about work, if the man is constantly portraying and belittling, then the centipedes have developed a deep crack. If you are still in the mood for assault and do not care about children, then there is only one way out: drink. This way you can preserve the physical and mental health of your children, their health, and sometimes their life.
Dear women, how do you respect that you can forgive and not mark such a person’s behavior, if so, then in any world, and if not, then if you live after the end?
You are faced with the situation: mother of a child. Maybe it’s your neighbor or colleague, or maybe it’s your relative. Or you just did it on the street. What is it timid? You can turn around and walk around without noticing or forgetting. You can fatally ignore this behavior of a woman. So I’ll pay even more. Is it possible to earn money, and even, as you know, there are no other people’s children and other people’s shares? If you have a duty to begin any kind of action, it is commendable and good - perhaps, you can effectively help the child. Even if you just want to work, it is still necessary to look into the causes and consequences of violence in your mother. So that the action has been accurate and truly helpful to you.
Mother of a child: what to do with such a situation?
What are the common causes of domestic violence? What makes a mother beat her children?
What will happen to the child, like her mother? How does one fight this psychology?
For some it’s more than just simple words, and for others it’s a home situation where you can’t go anywhere or go anywhere. Mom b'e child... Why bother? Where to go? From the very beginning you need to come to grips with the situation, understand it, and be aware of violence and beatings. And then it’s really important to give psychological help. And not only the child, but also the mother, for which the child’s beating is caused by stress, or, unfortunately, and action, such as there's no way to get excited.
Violence in the family - the mother beats the child, she would like to hit the man
Everything in this world has its own reasons. It doesn’t happen so that the action becomes without any cob. We have the power to joke about the roots of too much activity. Ditina was nasty, mom hit her. Ditina stole, Yogo’s mother beat him and punished him. Everything appears on the surface, everything is simple. But in truth, we understand the reasons for that inheritance, and even the behavior of a child - this is only a reason for a woman to let off a couple, to put her stress on someone. And the main reason for this tension lies not in the behavior of the child, but rather deeply in herself.
Today it is already possible for us to properly reveal the causes of violence in the family. As is the father, so is the mother. And for whom it is necessary to marvel at the situation not through oneself, one’s power and everyday life, but through the prism of a new unique knowledge – a system-vector mentality. So we are glad that all the violence in this family, brutal beatings, is carried out, including by people with an anal vector in the camp These are special misfortunes.
Other people can also hit a child, but not with violence, which can lead to psychological harm. A person with a skinny vector of aggression can hit a baby, or rather protect him or reduce the excitement of his toys. And the axis of the goal is straightened out to break down once again the people with the anal vector have accumulated. social and sexual frustrations.
To understand the reasons for female violence against children, it is necessary to look at two aspects. In the anal vector, people are in a mental supernatural state, as we all have.
Otje, woman with anal vector As a rule, the squad and mother are good. By nature, she is not a career woman and has no desire to create a family, give birth to children, or create quiet in her everyday life - this is her role, this is her joy. Also, she has a high sexual libido, and therefore she can get a lot of intimate fluids. For an anal woman, it is very important that a man speaks about her, being respectful, not forgetting to praise her for a delicious evening, cleanliness and order in everyone. Itself, having consumed all the overexposed minds of the anal women, a miracle squad and mothers emerge.
In life, everything will never be perfect. As a rule, men with a skinny vector get involved and make friends with anal women and are absolutely in charge of their authorities. And most importantly, their sexual libido is lower than that of their squads. A skinny man has the least libido of all others, and cannot be compensated by good earnings. So it turns out that often a skinny person works and takes away a decent amount of money, rather than keeping his squad happy. In addition, in the current world, the number of separations is increasing and the anal wife may be left without a man, and therefore without intimate panties. Another, for example, anal woman can easily meet new acquaintances at close quarters, but for an anal woman such behavior is stress. It is important to have new prints, especially since behind the back there is an important image on the front.
In any case, over time, anal women begin to accumulate sexual frustrations, which are obscene to talk about. But she herself is often not particularly aware of her shortcomings.
What happens to a person when internal troubles grow within her? Different people's skin copes with stress differently depending on its vector set. The sound people are depressed, the spectators are falling hard, the skinners are throwing away their work and earning pennies. In the anal vector, inconsistencies accumulate in the form of frustrations, which soon burst out into sadism and violence. Most often it occurs in anal men, and rarely in women.
The anal man unleashes his cruelty on his friends - beating them, choking them, belittling them. It would seem that if the situation had turned around, the guilty heroes would simply switch roles. At Sunset it is the same. There, the man and the woman have equal rights, in a similar situation, the anal squad engages in assault - there is no skinny man. In our urethral mentality, the situation is getting worse. In our country it is not accepted for a woman to beat a man, but it is considered abnormal, unpleasant, wonderful and divine. That’s why our friends are very rarely with their friends. Where do they go with their frustrations? Unfortunately, for my children. So the mother begins to beat the child, little by little, then hard, maybe in public, right on the street, and then viciously.
Sometimes it happens that a woman’s similar dissatisfaction with the anal vector is not due to sexual problems, but social ones. Ale tse sooner blame. Well, in this case, the children themselves get the best deal. And this is always a tragedy, because beating a mother is the worst thing that can happen to a child. At such a moment, the vein loses its defensiveness and stops developing. And it depends on the strength and frequency of the beating, which is fought in a nightmarish manner throughout one’s life.
Reasons for beatings: why is the child at fault?
Naturally, children are restless, and often simply unbearable. There are no such children, there is nothing to punish for. The stinks are running, wiping, screaming, you don’t want to understand. Otherwise, it’s necessary to sleep, not make contact, remain closed and mumble. Some mother will someday have a reason to punish her child for behavior that does not fit into her rules about life.
Before beating the child, mom needs all the reasons. Before us, for ourselves, to justify our actions. We are all so powerful: we need pure darkness in our mother’s powerful eyes. And mothers who experience power frustrations should always know the reasons for this.
Quite often the reason for the physical punishment of a child is child theft, which manifests itself in children with a skin vector. For a person with an anal vector, such an evil is similar to death - it’s a waste and rubbish. And the theft of a child is an act that truly means punishment, immobilization and severe beating.
The skinny child, whose mother hit him once for stealing, never pinned down his actions, but in the end - a long-lasting job. Experiencing such actions by mothers with a sense of predation, they are influenced by the actions themselves through their archetype. Moreover, since at first it was similar to a simple game, the theft of rubbish speeches, it soon begins to generate serious turnover: a cell phone from a classmate, pennies from a hamman in the same mother. Those for which you can already punish not your mother, but the power. At the same time, with the growing villainy, a masochism is formed in him, burning to the point of pain, as in the future, he is brought up to the strange scenarios of life: from the bottom there is a risk of violence in life, from the boy - a real caric villain, or simply bad luck, who has in life And no, nothing will come of it.
The anal mother beats the child no less for stealing. The reasons will always be known, but all of them lie in characteristics and speeches that are negative for the anal vector (how to talk to her anal mother): for disobedience, for stubbornness, for restlessness, etc.
Mom has a baby: sum up the inheritance
Punishing the child, beating her, the mother always strives for a turning effect. To put it simply, the more the mother cruelly treats the child, the worse and worse it becomes. On the other hand, she has more and more drives to vent her frustrations. Ale tse do not believe її main problem, sexual and social frustrations, then, the stench will no longer become stronger.
Vantaged...